Exactly! I've heard so many straight men tell women they shouldn't cut their hair because it's too 'manly' or whatever. There's so much homophobia (and misogyny underneath) that drive them to say liking masculine women is 'gay'. I get the feeling if times were different they'd be more vocal about it. Because I've seen a lot of women say they like men with softer features, and I am one such woman lol. Just look at how popular things like boy bands and male kpop groups are. I find it really hard to believe that women like femininity in men but men don't like masculinity in women. It seems like the men who do like it don't feel comfortable expressing it.