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[–]8bitgay 44 insightful - 8 fun44 insightful - 7 fun45 insightful - 8 fun -  (8 children)

I mean, yeah, describing cock as God's greatest gift to gay men isn't far from truth. Probably the most reasonable thing said in the entire post, although it was meant as sarcasm.

I bet many lesbians and straight/bi men also find vaginas God's greatest gift. But of course you need to go after the group who isn't interested in it, uh?

And it's not sexism to acknowledge the opposite sex is hard to date. Sure gay/lesbian relationships have their own issues, but straight relationships are loaded with society's expectations and stereotypes. When I date another man we don't have to deal with expectations on how should men treat women or how should women treat men.

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 19 insightful - 5 fun19 insightful - 4 fun20 insightful - 5 fun -  (7 children)

That's so true. Probably the best aspects of homosexuality is not dealing with pre-determined expectations. Hetero relations are really so limitating by gender stereotype. There are hetero couples who don't give a shit about gender roles at all, but that's rare exception from the norm, it's hard to going against what society wants for you. Everything in hetero relations is following specific norms. But there are also homosexuals who mimic hetero relationship dynamic like butch/femme couples and literally I hate few things more than seeing heteronormativity in homo couples.

[–]8bitgay 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

But there are also homosexuals who mimic hetero relationship dynamic like butch/femme couples and literally I hate few things more than seeing heteronormativity in homo couples.

I think a big difference is assumption. Maybe you're a submissive bottom-only gay guy in a relationship with a dominant top-only gay guy, but you guys probably had to discuss it even if briefly. Even that initial question of "are you a top or a bottom?", simple as it is, creates a discussion, you aren't just assuming.

And with straight couples I feel that this often isn't the case. People often go into relationships with strong assumptions based on society and media of how a relationship should be, how a male partner should be, how a female partner should be, etc.

So yeah, for me there's a huge difference between a straight man being dominant in a straight relationship because he assumes that he is supposed to act this way based on society expectations, and a gay man being dominant in a gay relationship because he discussed it with his partner and turns out both of them find this dynamic enjoyable.

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

Yeah, as I said, in homo relationship there is more open discussion, unlike hetero ones. But heteronormative influence gay ones too. There are some who think in some way there must to be female or male role and they act like a pretend hetero couples, and I find it such turn-off.

[–]FrostyNugsI'm allergic to nuts 9 insightful - 12 fun9 insightful - 11 fun10 insightful - 12 fun -  (4 children)

There are some who think in some way there must to be female or male role and they act like a pretend hetero couples, and I find it such turn-off.

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[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

You got an awesome sense of humour, my girl.

[–]FrostyNugsI'm allergic to nuts 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Aww thank you 😁

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Use this with tinder girl. Someone will fall in love. I mean making a girl laugh is the first step to reach her heart :D

[–]FrostyNugsI'm allergic to nuts 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Hahaha I'll try!