Gay MenNow that's a new one: a gay man refusing to date transmen is on par with racial genocide

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[–]turtleduck23 59 insightful - 1 fun59 insightful - 0 fun60 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

everything is "literal violence" to them. not wanting is date trans is killing trans people. I've seen sjw compare "terfs" to hitler and call us "fascist" yet it's them who constantly tries to suppress speech, harass those who disagree with them, rewrite history and change definition of words to suite their delusions.

[–]FrostyNugsI'm allergic to nuts 35 insightful - 11 fun35 insightful - 10 fun36 insightful - 11 fun -  (0 children)

People being allowed to have sexual boundaries is basically the definition of fascism

[–]Eurowoman24 12 insightful - 3 fun12 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

not to mention the comparison of black and muslim women to males...

[–]insta 9 insightful - 3 fun9 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

everything is "literal violence" to them.

except violence from people/groups that politically align with them.

[–]luckystar 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Pure DARVO/projection

[–]Head_Sherbert 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

But when they make comments espousing violence, when challenged it's either justified, or all metaphorical.....

[–]Rosefield 41 insightful - 2 fun41 insightful - 1 fun42 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

The gender loon is literally saying that gay men being attracted to men only is "unfortunate". Fucking vile & disgusting.

[–]artetolife 35 insightful - 1 fun35 insightful - 0 fun36 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

Not really. They'll appropriate any other minority struggle. Wtf phrenology has to do with any of it is a mystery though. That whole thread is full of weird pandering from woke bros claiming they'd totally dick a trans man when you know they never have or will.

[–]Rosefield 30 insightful - 1 fun30 insightful - 0 fun31 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Knowing the difference between male & female apparently is phrenology now. Gender clowns use words they don't understand and mangle the definitions until it fits into their ideology.

[–]8bitgay[S] 23 insightful - 1 fun23 insightful - 0 fun24 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

It was disappointing to read the comments. When these threads pop up on Gaybros there are always some comments saying that they would date transmen, but most say the opposite. Now it seems that the overwhelming majority of comments is saying they would date a transman. Though I wonder how many of those guys would actually do it in real life.

It seems that Gaybros isn't so gay anymore.

[–]artetolife 25 insightful - 6 fun25 insightful - 5 fun26 insightful - 6 fun -  (2 children)

They're mostly like "if I was attracted to him" which suggests they have yet to find a trans man attractive. Can't even get their woke comments right lol.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

It sounds like a get out of jail card, because we all know that gay men are not gonna find trans men attractive. But they don’t want to get banned for hate speech. Gaybros censors people, unlike AskGayBros.

[–]insta 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It sounds like a get out of jail card

It puts the TRAs on their backfoot though. It forces them to dive into the social engineering stance or drop the issue. For me personally I wouldn't actually be against dating someone who looked like Luke Hudson for example but the immense baggage these people usually come with makes it not worth considering.

[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I suspect gaybros has had a huge influx of fujoshis in the last year or two. There's certainly nothing bro about it, which is entertaining because in the early days it was a place for guys into traditional "masculine" shit to talk about hunting, cars blah blah blah. Then when laureli and RobotAnna transed and banned the fucked out of /r/lgbt, a whole pile of gay refugees piled in there, changed the whole purpose (which was admittedly a bit redundant) and down the track a bit started behaving just like the woke fascists in the place they fled from.

[–]MisandryFTW 26 insightful - 3 fun26 insightful - 2 fun27 insightful - 3 fun -  (4 children)

I used to believe I owed my body to people to make them feel better about themselves, but then I came up with the suggestion "Why not date each other?" and apparently this was offensive because it wasn't "validating enough" and they weren't attracted to each other because they wanted a "real woman" (their words). That's when I started to peak. I was willing to date people I wasn't attracted to at all to keep them from killing themselves, but their personalities again and again made me not even want to be around them. Then I had the idea, "Why not date bi/pansexuals?" and apparently that wasn't validating enough either. They needed a "big tiddy nerdy goth lesbian mommy dom to dress them in diapers and feminize them, lock their penis in a cage" and they kept bringing it up every time they saw me. I wasn't into that at all (and was triggered by most of it due to childhood abuse) and their personalities showed such mental illness and entitlement I avoided them at social gatherings (most had diagnosed low functioning ASD, NPD, and BPD and were on disability and living with their parents despite being in their 40-60s because they couldn't get along with people well enough to stay employed), so I was a "snob" apparently because I only wanted to hang around OFAB people, when the truth is I only wanted to hang around people I got along with and who respected my boundaries, which excluded nearly all OMAB people, regardless of how they identify.

I feel really bad that they have a mental illness, but I'm not obligated to "fix" it with my body and time. If someone is having an acute emergency I will be there for them but I'm not going to be tricked into sexual assault again and again just because someone threatens suicide and our mutual friends pressure me.

[–]peaked2020 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

What is OFAB?

[–]MisandryFTW 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Observed Female At Birth. Basically the least offensive way of saying Female without co-opting intersex narratives. Apparently it's only used by Gender Critical folks. AFAB annoys a lot of intersex people because "assigned" implies surgery or being intersex and someone decides for you as a newborn. It started because a lot of trans women wanted to pretend they were maybe intersex.

[–]peaked2020 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Why not just say “female”...?

[–]MisandryFTW 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I got used to using it because most circles I hang around in "female" just means anyone who identifies as female, which doesn't make sense and also adds to confusion. If I said to my friends "I only want to hang out with females." then they would be confused because a lot of my friends are OFAB but identify otherwise plus I don't want to hang around trans women most of the time. There is no gendercritical local community so it's either liberal feminist LGBT+, religious homophobes, or staying home. I mostly stay home.

[–]Willpoll 25 insightful - 2 fun25 insightful - 1 fun26 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

"(unfortunately) for some gay guys anatomy matters" They can fuck all the way off. We've heard this shit before with the Christian weirdos and didn't take it then, and I'm not gonna take it now.

[–]FrostyNugsI'm allergic to nuts 23 insightful - 4 fun23 insightful - 3 fun24 insightful - 4 fun -  (1 child)

They are literally a parody of themselves

[–]8bitgay[S] 18 insightful - 5 fun18 insightful - 4 fun19 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

Right? I can almost hear someone saying in the distance "Nobody is calling you a genocide for not dating transmen!".

[–]julesburm1891 23 insightful - 2 fun23 insightful - 1 fun24 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I’d be interested to listen to whatever leaps that schmuck would use to link homosexuality to genocide.

[–]NiceDickBro 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Why are they so fucking obsessed with telling people what they should or shouldn’t be attracted to? Do they not see they’re basically the church pastors running the camps? Fuck sakes.

[–]ChodeSandwichtender and moist 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

They don't care. They're addicted to anger&catharsis and have a whole net of enablers telling them that they aren't getting high, they're noble warriors for the right side of history.

[–]JulienMayfair 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This is a very important point -- understanding that there is a psychological reward for this pattern of behavior that requires increasing levels of stimulation.

[–]insta 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Why are they so fucking obsessed with telling people what they should or shouldn’t be attracted to?

Exactly. If TRAs were all about arguing that trans people shouldn't be discriminated against in housing or jobs that would be a movement I could understand and side with. However, so much of their activism comes down to "find me hot". It's fucking weird.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Of course autonomy matters. I want a man with a functioning penis. Strap-ons are artificial and don’t respond to stimuli. And those "penises" they make for transmen, well... I’ve seen that Mister Metokur video. I now know how these things are made. I don’t want anything to do with that at all.

I still have no interest in massacring tens of thousands, if not millions, of people. My penis does not ejaculate magical substances that attack cancer cells or cure AIDS. Nobody needs to have sex with me in order to survive. By the way, racism has got nothing to do with this, because I will not have sex with transsexuals of any race or ethnicity.

GayBros? Was true for that sub many years ago. Now it might as well be renamed GayBetaMales or GaySoyBoys.

[–]BigMommyMilkersYes, they're real 9 insightful - 11 fun9 insightful - 10 fun10 insightful - 11 fun -  (1 child)

You mean you don't want to suck an arm flesh tube?

I've never seen such discrimination

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I know right? I’m such a horrible bigot for not wanting to put a hairy leg-skinned dick in my mouth.

[–]JulienMayfair 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

And I wish this were only the first time today I've read that.

[–]pacmanla 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

As a heterosexual male, who supports the LGB, these past couple of months have been eye opening as far as trans trying to shame, bully, & deceive their way into LGB men & women (biological) bedrooms. This has turn very "rapey" imho. I remember reading about transwomen "difficulties" about finding love on Valentine's day on Vox's website, maybe four years ago. I knew then what trans "rights" were really about.

Here's the harsh truth & reality: No group is owed sexual or romantic interest from anyone. You don't have the "right" to be in a person's dating or sexual pool, because you "feel" as the sex that you're biologically not. Just because you "feel" like a woman, doesn't give a biological male who's doctored HIMSELF to appear as one, the right to demand biological lesbians & heterosexual men a place in their sex & dating lives. This is not a civil rights issue.

[–]luckystar 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

This stuff makes no sense. People aren't attracted to the words "I identify as a [wo]man". We are attracted to one sex or the other (unless you're bi)

[–]8bitgay[S] 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

But see, that's interesting, because they say "you can't be attracted to genitals because you don't know people's genitals when you see them walking in the street"...

Yet we don't know people's pronouns or how they identify either!