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For most of my life, "gender" was simply the everyday synonym for "sex", for contexts where saying "sex" would feel inappropriate

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[–]8bitgay 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

I think that an unfortunate fact is that they use arguments that are reasonable at first. I mean, sex shouldn't dictate how you live your life. Just because you're born male it doesn't mean you should marry a woman or have to follow your society's stereotypes of how men should be like.

This might seem obvious to us, but to a lot of conservative people it isn't. I bet many of us here have heard stuff like "you are a man, so you have to [stereotype]", "you are a man, so you can't [stereotype]".

What they do though is extrapolate this point. It starts from "your sex shouldn't dictate your entire life" and becomes "your sex is completely irrelevant in all situations". So it can be hard to disagree with their points without it seeming like you agree with the conservative people who follow arbitrary sex-related stereotypes.

[–]BiHorror 2 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

conservative people

At this point, with the amount of damage/bullshit both GC and TRA have done, I rather have conservatives telling me I need to be feminine.

[–]VioletRemiCat, homosexual one 9 insightful - 6 fun9 insightful - 5 fun10 insightful - 6 fun -  (2 children)

I need to be feminine.

I read that "I need to be feline" :D

[–]les4leshomonormative 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

...catgender?

[–]VioletRemiCat, homosexual one 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Meow!