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I think that sex and (romantic) love are interconnected. Men tend to love the people they sexualise, and women tend to sexualise the people they love. And we don't always fall in love with the people with have sex with. However, I would highly doubt that there would be anyone who only has sex with one sex and falls in love with another. Sexual attraction spurs romantic attraction and vice-versa, they're two sides of the same coin. Queer thoery can argue till it's blue in the face that there's a split, however I've never seen anyone who bona fide emobodied that split irl. A lot of the people I see online talking about this stuff are generally inexperienced / young.