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[–]Seahorse 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I fucking HATE the previously lesbian so called "gay" transmen.

As if lesbians didn't need any more bullshit arguments against our sexuality.

[–]strawberrycake 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Unfortunately, I know two different women who identified as lesbians becoming “gay men”. Another one I knew who didn’t transition was dating a man last I checked. I know lesbians are a thing of course I just feel like this fixation on labels isn’t always a good thing for people.

[–]Seahorse 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I think that the stigma with bisexuals means some actual bisexual people avoid the label entirely, not realising that they're the ones that damage it.

The worst thing to happen to sexuality was getting it mixed up with "identity". I don't "identify as" a lesbian, I am one. But other people treat their sexuality as their identity, what they are currently clinging to at that state of mind and time.