Transing ChildrenHow to talk gay high school-age guy out of "SRS" (& "trans-ness" generally)?

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[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Tell him that it’s okay to be okay, and that there are a lot of good men out there who have done remarkable things. Show him examples of this.

Also, show him examples of sex reassignment surgery going wrong. Tell him about all the complications that arise from neovagina surgery. Let’s be clear: this surgery creates a hole which should not be there, that needs to be dilated every day so it won’t become gangrenous. Show him that Mister Metokur video "Transtastic Tales 1: How the Sausage is Made", which is on BitChute. It’s a disgusting video, but this kid may need to see this, ad it captures all the horrific realities of transitioning.

This lad may be intelligent, but this is proof that even the most intelligent person in the word can join a cult. It’s brainwashing. Save this boy's life.

[–]PenseePansyBio-Sex or Bust[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Thanks so much for responding; I should have added in my post that, being a woman, advice from gay men is particularly welcome here. Otherwise I can only approach the issue from one side without getting all theoretical. (Not that everybody-- regardless of sex or sexual orientation-- shouldn't feel free to weigh in, of course; I need all the help I can get!)

I'm gonna pursue the "you can be one of the GOOD men in the world" and "it's OK to be gay" avenues. One thing that may lead somewhere is finding out how this whole I'm-a-girl error got started. He says that he first remembers feeling this way when he was 6; I wonder if it might have been based on realizing that he liked boys, and then reasoning (with little-kid logic) that, since it's girls who like boys, he must therefore be a girl. A notion that I'm sure he would soon have grown out of, if this trans-cultism weren't around to exploit children's perfectly natural childishness.

Re: the grim realities of so-called SRS: while obviously I'm on the same page as you here, Warrior, and will of course keep videos like this in mind, the thing is? Considering how much of this is motivated by outright hatred of himself in general and his penis in particular, the whole it's-goddamn-mutilation-dude angle may strike him as being more a feature than a bug. Which saddens, horrifies, and angers me (the latter at all the adults who peddle this sick shit) so much that I hardly even know what to say to him.

God, I certainly hope I can save this kid's life... I just wish he had someone more competent than me (of all people) to help him. :(

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You’re welcome for the response. I appreciate that you are looking out for him. Best of luck. Also, try getting in contact with people who have detransitioned and ask them to reach out to him. They might convince him.