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[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡[S] 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (14 children)

Thank you for your answer. I've became very wary of bi people since I was told by at least 3 bi people that my aversion to dick was "strange" and it was not "normal" and that I should "reflect on it". I feel SO uncomfortable, it makes me cringe everytime I think about it. And these people are the ones who are "representing" our community and creating """""safe"""" places for LGBTQESAFFSGSG people. But it's definitely true that I should look for the behavior first, no doubt. I just feel scared to open up to bi people in general, because I guess I don't know whether or not they'll support me or tell me "my aversion to dick is weird". :( Oh well. I do know there are several decent bi people out there, I just can't know for sure if I'm "safe" with them or not.

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

Did you say to them to reflect about their homophobia?

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡[S] 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

I did not, because it was on a public forum and it was basically me against maybe 5/6 people? I had one gay man and a straight man which defended me though. But it was an academic forum, it had nothing to do with sexuality. But these annoying ~queer~ people make it all everythign about themselves. I just tried to be the most polite as possible. In the end, I put up a good fight but clearly I was only one and they were a lot and these queer people do NOT care about homosexuals one bit. They just care about being so cool and edgy and different hihi.

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

How did you end up talking about dicks in academic forum, by the way? LMAO

Queers bisexual girls. More cancer than religious bigots.

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡[S] 16 insightful - 2 fun16 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

Because like I said, queer people talk about gay 24/7 even in forums that have NOTHING to do with sexuality. They're so annoying. And two of the bisexual people were actually men.

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 14 insightful - 3 fun14 insightful - 2 fun15 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

Queer bisexual guys and girls. More cancer than religious bigot. Fixed it.

It usually the girls writing shit like that. That's why I thought about it.

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡[S] 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Yes, definitely you see more ~queer~ bisexual girls or ~queer~ fake bisexual girls, aka straight women who want to be ~different~

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

The worst are the bisexuals calling themselves lesbians and bragging about liking girl dick.

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡[S] 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Definitely!!!!!!

[–]haveanicedaytoo💗💜💙 15 insightful - 3 fun15 insightful - 2 fun16 insightful - 3 fun -  (5 children)

my aversion to dick was "strange" and it was not "normal"

What in the actual fuck?

The only thing strange/abnormal here is these people pretending to believe you that you are a lesbian, and then immediately trying to convince you that you are not. These people are liars and scam artists. They should have the courage to say "shut up, you're bi!" rather than try to play mind-games with you and try to get you to question yourself. These people are trash.

How old are they? Are they people you've met IRL in your country or are they internet people? This is just so unacceptable. You CANNOT tell someone their lack of attraction to something is "strange." You should be like "What's strange is, you don't seem to know what the definition of a lesbian is!"

IDK why I have so much aggressive/angry energy today, I want to yell at people on your behalf, LOL I feel like I'm "peaking" all over again, but this time not with trans, but with trans-enablers. These people need to suck on a whole bag of girl-dicks before they can lecture you about anything!

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 27 insightful - 5 fun27 insightful - 4 fun28 insightful - 5 fun -  (1 child)

Trans enablers are even worst. Like the dumb girl who wrote the lesbian sex guide talkibg about penis in vag. I'm sick of it.

[–]haveanicedaytoo💗💜💙 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

And most of these people have NEVER met a trans person IRL, let alone ever dated one, and they NEVER would. They just sit at home safe and smug and type this stuff on the internet because it makes them feel good about themselves.

I used to be on a sub called /r/vanderpumprules (a reality TV show) and for a few seasons there was a trans woman on it called Billie and the female castmates were having problems with him, and these virtue signally women in that sub had a field-day beating their chests about how woke they are and how supportive they are and of course TWAW and screeching about TERFs. It was actually one of the incidents that helped me to peak.

This is a sub that was mostly women and gay dudes geeking out over a shitty reality show, but the moment these women had the opportunity to be superheroes and defend a trans woman, they all got so excited. Meanwhile, in most of the incidents on the show, it was Billie who was causing the problems, not the female castmates. (In some incidents, he really was being bullied/antagonized/excluded, I agree, fair is fair.) But the people on this sub felt so UNCOMFORTABLE ever calling him out on his shitty behavior. They kept bending over backwards defending him and attacking anyone who tried to call out his bad behavior and downvoting everyone who had the wrong opinion.

It's so easy to pretend to be on the side of a trans person and go "Oh yeah, I'd totally date one!" when you've never met one IRL.

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡[S] 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

It was online on a forum for ACADEMIC purposes. But queer people MUST talk about gay gay gay 24/7 EVERYWHERE and they were talking shit about JK Rowling. At least 3 of them were bisexual people. I'm only there EXCLUSIVELY for academic purposes. But I only spoke that day and never again because I felt REALLY uncomfortable and bad. Even today I was so angry because one of the group asked people to tell their sexuality and they didn't even INCLUDED HOMOSEXUALITY OR HETEROSEXUALITY. The extremes were either 10 homosexual 90 heterosexual OR 10 heterosexual 90 homosexual. I was SO pissed off. I don't even go there as much because of them 😖 I hate this people, they make me feel really uncomfortable and they're REPRESENTING the community I'm in, that's what I hate the most. I have NOTHING to do with these stupid people!

EDIT: I just realised I didn't answer your question lol. But they were young: 2 of them 18-20 years old and the other probably 22 I think

[–]haveanicedaytoo💗💜💙 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I am so sorry you have to deal with this shit. I feel so bad for the younger LGB!

I bet they don't tell the straight girls it's "Strange" they aren't attracted to vaginas, right??

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡[S] 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I have no idea. Thing is straight people are not in this community you know? They can much easily get away from this shit than me. If I want to find LGB people, I have to deal with this shit. Straight people meet straight people everywhere and they don't even need their own places because they're so many lol... Anyway, thanks for the support <3 I truly appreciate it.