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[–]marmorsymphata 30 insightful - 14 fun30 insightful - 13 fun31 insightful - 14 fun -  (13 children)

At this point, I’m almost addicted to calling myself a lesbian

Yikes. And of course his name is "Catgirl princess"

[–]RedditHatesLesbiansHomosexual Not Queer 29 insightful - 3 fun29 insightful - 2 fun30 insightful - 3 fun -  (12 children)

Being an actual lesbian I have literally never called myself a lesbian in real life, let alone being addicted to it. It's almost like these AGP males face none of the repercussions real lesbians have when they're out and so constantly say it as part of a disgusting fetish 🤔

[–]3MistersAndAMissy 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (11 children)

What do lesbians call themselves today? ‘Lesbian’ Was coopted. Then ‘true’ and then ‘actual’ lesbian was colonized.

I used to assume that internet dating was probably safest for lesbians but I would guess it’s the sketchiest now with all the creeps.

This is crazy and I so feel for you all.

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 16 insightful - 4 fun16 insightful - 3 fun17 insightful - 4 fun -  (1 child)

It was the safest since there was no man. Now is different.

[–]VioletRemiCat, homosexual one 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Now with all this word twisting, there no way to find, unless asking questions like "borned as female natal women lover?" But even then, some men are saying their body is female, because they have Self-ID documents stating them as female, so their penises are natal female biology by their logic. LOL.

So there no real way nowadays in UK or USA to say you are a woman, or that you love women.

[–]RedditHatesLesbiansHomosexual Not Queer 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I still call myself a lesbian, and if I'm ever forced to clarify or presented with a transbian to date I'll go, "I'm a homosexual female" since that hasn't been appropriated. Yet.

[–]3MistersAndAMissy 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I wish you all the best!!

I’m so sorry for what is happening in your community.

I’m so glad I’m not young now. I'm probably a touch bi. I really REALLY hope I would not have been one of those mostly straight girls appropriating the word lesbian and welcoming transbians on ‘behalf of lesbians’. Such total BS

It’s like how I am a small percentage ‘sub saharan African’. If I identified as black and welcomed in racists as long as they had a fetish for Black women. It would make the space unsafe for actual Black women at no risk to myself.

[–]VioletRemiCat, homosexual one 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I am calling myself lesbian as well, as I am not giving up on something that belongs to me.

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡ 12 insightful - 2 fun12 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

Yeeep. I feel like I have no community, we have no bars, no lesbian only anything and the lgbtqwtf events are full of blue haired queer ~progressive ~ people

[–]3MistersAndAMissy 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Internet hugs.

I’m not lesbian but I know how much I have always loved the vibe of a female only space. I’ve been in lesbian spaces and they were beautiful. I never got hit on because women just nicely get a feel for you and don’t push things. (Or maybe I wasn’t that cute, lol)

I cannot imagine how awful it would be to have some tacky dude pushing his way into that space, demanding extra reassurance and attention, and creating divisiveness. Lesbians have to identify as ‘progressive ladydique accepters’ or be labeled ‘hateful exclusionary trfs’

Even as (mostly) straight women, my friend and I used to love to go to gay male bars to be left alone by men. (I really hope we weren’t invading their spaces in retrospect).

I wish you the best

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡ 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Aww thanks for the support 💖💖

[–]FrostyNugsI'm allergic to nuts 6 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

I call myself a female homosexual. Of course, "homosexual" is now an offensive word.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

To those who don't qualify...

[–]Griffgay dude 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

All of my lesbian friends are "nonbinary women" now who still seem to call themselves lesbians and women 99% of the time.