LGB ErasureOnly way to be actual homosexual nowadays seems to be trans and date other trans

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[–]LiterallyawomanTERF IRL 20 insightful - 3 fun20 insightful - 2 fun21 insightful - 3 fun -  (9 children)

A gay man I know irl has started referring to himself as a magical girl and making some really unhealthy comparisons between himself and women, obsessed with claiming he could get any man his female friends could and that together they will as KWEENS sleep with all the STRAIGHT men in their neighborhood once the pandemic is over.

He’s insufferable to talk to and can’t go 5 minutes without bragging about himself and how he’s such a “nerd” or “weird” for liking normal shit like comics, anime, or Harry Potter-like bruh you’re 30-this shit is embarrassing.

He made a shitty comment to me for being in a long term monogamous relationship too yet can’t seem to hold a man down and complains of it endlessly(not directly to me I keep him at an arms length socially) so I feel it’s only a matter of time that he “realizes” he’s a transwoman to deal with his shitty love life and borderline creepy envy and obsession with women, especially comparing himself to female anime characters.

[–]MezozoicGayoldschool gay 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

My ex under homophobic pressure became transwoman too and is dating man or transwomen now. And he is all the time saying how he is better woman than woman - "I am same as woman, same bonuses in sexy body, with smarter brain and better socialization, but unlike woman I have no minuses, like menstruation or pregnancy, or mood swaps". And other things like that. He helped me peaking.

[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah 10 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

Transnarcissism - a whole new member of the Cluster B family.

[–]MezozoicGayoldschool gay 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

THe thing is that he was pretty normal gay men, much less feminine than me. And main reason why he went to transition were homophobia (he moved into Russia to his relatives) and not acceptance in public and family. And then after some time of being transwoman he became this.

[–]RedditHatesLesbiansHomosexual Not Queer 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Some sort of coping mechanism maybe?

[–]LiterallyawomanTERF IRL 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

He sounds so toxic and misogynistic jesus how awful. I’m glad you got away from him!

[–]haveanicedaytoo💗💜💙 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Oh no, being this insecure, this sexually frustrated, and this narcissistic is a terrible combo! People like him need to be dropped into a deserted island somewhere with like a bag of rice and some survival gear so they can spend some solo-time with themselves and hit the reset button where their priorities are concerned. Just concentrate on surviving for a month rather than about creating a cool sexy persona about yourself that not even you believe.

[–]LiterallyawomanTERF IRL 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Before the pandemic I only saw him in groups and we didn’t interact much because I never let him talk over me or down to me-he actually became really quiet around me! But after the pandemic I plan to stress to our mutual friend that I will not go to any function he is at because she knows how much he annoys me. She’s another woman who has just started peaking but she’s still a doormat in many ways to her old group of (imho) shitty, failed-to-launch friends. She even acknowledged how uncomfortable he made her but she puts up with it because she came from a bad homelife and thinks everyone deserves a chance. Like no thanks he’s a big red flag and you’re going to learn the hard way when he crosses some serious boundaries.

[–]haveanicedaytoo💗💜💙 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You should show her "Don't rock the boat." It's about some guy's mother in law, but in my opinion it applies to drama queens in friend groups too!

https://www.reddit.com/r/JUSTNOMIL/comments/77pxpo/dont_rock_the_boat/