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[–]TovasshiDefinitely a house plant 46 insightful - 2 fun46 insightful - 1 fun47 insightful - 2 fun -  (23 children)

Just identify into being gay to satisfy your spouse and save you're marriage.

I have a special distaste yet pity for these women.

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 34 insightful - 1 fun34 insightful - 0 fun35 insightful - 1 fun -  (20 children)

Some women got no dignity.

[–]TovasshiDefinitely a house plant 27 insightful - 1 fun27 insightful - 0 fun28 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

I really want to ask them sometime, if they ever split up with their trans spouse, are they going to exclusively date women or do go back to dating men?

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 24 insightful - 2 fun24 insightful - 1 fun25 insightful - 2 fun -  (5 children)

They're not lesbians. So exclusively dating women is unlikely. But I wouldn't say they're hetero either. Because a true hetero woman would not tolerate this.

[–]TovasshiDefinitely a house plant 28 insightful - 1 fun28 insightful - 0 fun29 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

A lot of trans wives have no choice but to tolerate it. They can't leave or they're afraid of being shamed or shunned if they do.

[–]artetolife 23 insightful - 2 fun23 insightful - 1 fun24 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

Yeah, reading through trans widow threads the ones who stay are always financially dependent SAHMs who'd be near-destitute if they just left him. If he hits you there are organisations that will help you leave, no help for you if he forces you to become a lesbian.

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Being a stay at home mom can be a form of slavery.

[–]VioletRemiCat, homosexual one 22 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 0 fun23 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Half a century ago it was. I still remember reasoning of UK goverment why there were no women toilets - "it is not expected to woman be far from house anyways".

[–]hufflepuff-poet 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

These people have such a low sense of self, who just changes their sexuality based on their partner?! Your sexuality is an insanely personal thing and doesn't shift between partners, its YOUR sexual orientation. That "gay for you" nonsense is such a childish way to look at sexuality.

[–]MezozoicGayoldschool gay 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (12 children)

They may do that for kids.

I am not sure if kids will suffer more from trans-father or from divorce. I'd say trans-father will be bigger issue, but well.

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 28 insightful - 5 fun28 insightful - 4 fun29 insightful - 5 fun -  (10 children)

I surely as hell would prefer my parents to divorce than my father saying to be a woman lol

[–]MezozoicGayoldschool gay 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (9 children)

I just hope that father will not beat the shit out of them, when they will be misgendering him or mocking, like most kids would do.

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 22 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 0 fun23 insightful - 1 fun -  (8 children)

Most likely the poor kids will be mocked by their classmates for having their father going around in skirt.

[–]MezozoicGayoldschool gay 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Then I hope that only mother will attend to the parent meetings.

[–]deliciousdogfoodmy name isnt a puppyplay reference i swear 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Come now, You know the father would show up, make it all about him and find something completely innocuous to try taking the school to court over.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Also, a lot of their friends will not want to come over and visit because they don’t want to walk on eggshells around the new "mom".

[–]julesburm1891 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

This exact scenario happened in my hometown when I was a kid. (story: This guy married a really devout catholic woman so she was locked in. Then he waited until they were a few kids in and announced he was a transbian.) I was a lot older than the kids, but I heard they had to homeschool because of the bullying.

[–]VioletRemiCat, homosexual one 14 insightful - 4 fun14 insightful - 3 fun15 insightful - 4 fun -  (1 child)

That is so hypocrytical.

They are "so much woman", that can be seen and perceived as man for infinite amount of time, until they "say the truth that they were a woman all along!". Same as that guy who "was woman", but became man to have more chances to be hired on high profile job and then "swapped back to woman". Disgusting.

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡ 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Omg I also saw that post......

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 12 insightful - 3 fun12 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

Poor woman. It would have even been worst for her, because of religion and being traditional.

[–]julesburm1891 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah. Even as a teenager I thought it was bullshit. She either violates her sincere religious belief or she has a miserable, embarrassing marriage. What a choice.

It gets better though. The guy is a professor. He had a reputation pre-transition for being not amazing at his job. But, according to a friend who now works at the university, he apparently claims all student complaints about his teaching/grading are transphobic and makes the entire department generally miserable.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

If my dad decided he was a woman and went about his life as such, I’d distance myself from him, divorce or no divorce.

[–]BigMommyMilkersYes, they're real 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I really dislike them, however I can understand that if you're raising 2 young kids and your husband is the sole provider, it's much easier to just shut up and play along.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That’s why alimony is somethings necessary.