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[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 7 insightful - 5 fun7 insightful - 4 fun8 insightful - 5 fun -  (2 children)

Why smaller?You can always date younger women Personally I find 10-20 years of difference not a problem or even desirable (got a thing for older women lol). I know lots of lesbian don't want to date bisexuals, which is totally dumb in my opinion. Another lesbian is preferable because you know a lesbian cannot understand attraction to males, but not a reason not to date. But I didn't know about having problem with being first relation. I've read there is no problem for it, often lesbians start dating older. But I guess depends on who you talk to. Anyway, you entering cougar town, and cougars are loved, you know :D

[–]TurkishCoffee 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

In general? just less lesbians in my area than straight guys. Which is kind of a given. If you mean why less by age - idk. I just don't have a lot of 20-somethings in my current social circles? I've dated a man 11 years my senior and age wasn't any of our issues. I don't wanna be a creep on younger men, or women, but if someone 10 years younger was interested and I was single, I'd probably give it a go. It's not a hard and fast "must be my age". It's just "mostly know my age and older for no good reason"

Same kinda applies to the first relation? That could really easily be a local thing in my area, or just coincidence of what I've seen. I dont really know that many lesbians and just..haven't spent a ton of time in spaces I'd meet more (not for any good reason, really. other than not knowing those spaces).

But LOL, maybe i should embrace cougar town if i'm single again and that'll be that. I like that outlook!

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Not specifically lesbians, they could also be bisexuals. Nothing creep in dating someone younger. If you happen to be single again, just use dating apps and set age as 10-20 years younger or older than you. You will find something. Doesn't matter if first relationship or not. But we will always hope it will be the last :)