Got in a fight w my best friend over this trans nonsense

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[–]SolRosenberg 22 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 0 fun23 insightful - 1 fun -  (15 children)

My boyfriend and I have conversations like this and unfortunately they often get heated. He just can’t see the colonization and gay erasure aspect of it.

[–]QueenBread 18 insightful - 4 fun18 insightful - 3 fun19 insightful - 4 fun -  (13 children)

He just can’t see the colonization and gay erasure aspect of it.

Dump him. Dump him before it's too late.

Also, expect him to suddenly "transition" and "identify as a lesbian" when you will dump him.

[–]FrenchiePup 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (10 children)

Stop with the "dump him/her". Seriously.

I frequent a guy who dumped his husband because the latter was log cabin and supported Trump.

Now my friend is lonely and unhappy.

[–]SolRosenberg 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Thank you. We've been together for 10 years and still haven't managed to kill each other yet. Not sure if @Queenbread was being sarcastic or not but either way QB gave a laugh.

Boyfriend is def not going anywhere ... but funny side note to the story, while we've been having these discussions, recently an FTM trans guy at the gym slipped my bf his phone number. I just laughed the whole way home.

[–]QueenBread 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (8 children)

You're telling me it's better to be in an abusive or sad relationship than to be single? Really?

[–]FrenchiePup 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

No, but most relationships are not abusive and/or sad.

I was in an abusive relationship, on the victim side, and it was not due to political or philosophical differences (of which there were many) but rather that my partner was nuts, psychopathic as well as empowered by clueless friends giving poor advice.

[–]QueenBread 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

Yeah, why am I not surprised that it would be someone who was in an abusive relationship the kind of person who claims you shouldn't dump your boyfriend even if he's crazy or nasty? Sod off.

[–]FrenchiePup 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

I never claimed that you shouldn't dump your boyfriend if he's crazy or nasty.

I said enough with the "dump him/her" based on different opinions.

I was extremely clear about that.

[–]QueenBread 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

So, by "different opinions" you actually mean "if your opinion is that I should dumb him, and it's different from mine, your opinion doesn't matter"?

This isn't called different opinions, this is called "only MY opinion matters".

Shut up and go find another abusive boyfriend, if you don't have one already. Perhaps he'll beat you up once he reads the bullcrap you write here.

[–]FrenchiePup 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I only said that people should not leave someone based only on a difference of opinions.

You are over interpreting what I said.

You seem to be very angry, for some reason. Are you ok?

[–]QueenBread 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

No, I'm not ok. Stupidity puts me in a bad mood, you know. I guess it was my own fault for commenting here!

[–]CheesyPeas 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Dude made a post on /r/agb about his BF 'coming out' as trans and a lesbian.

It's just gay with extra steps.

[–]yishengqingwa666Adult Human Female 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

He sees it. He just doesn't care.