Gay MenGay man finds out his date is ftm - wants conversion therapy for himself ( could be fake tho)

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[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡ 26 insightful - 1 fun26 insightful - 0 fun27 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

To be totally honest, it does scream fake. There's something about it that sounds "off". He took it too "lightly" when realizing suddenly he had a vagina. No signs of surprise or whatever... No time to "process" the news. For a "gay man", it was too "easy" to accept vagina in a heart beat. Fake

EDIT: By the way, I checked his profile and he's a new user on Reddit and this is the only post from him and the only comments he made are from that post and that sub is the only community he belongs (so no other subs such as gay subs or whatever... Yeah). Screams fake again.

[–]Seahorse 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Also, trans men are females, so I'm not really buying that many of them would be getting to the hot and heavy stage without disclosing.

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    [–]Rosefield[S] 23 insightful - 1 fun23 insightful - 0 fun24 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

    So this gay man found out he is dating a woman and wants to learn how to support her. Doesn't sound that bad right? HOWEVER the whole thing becomes really sinister if you read his comments which makes me think this is fake.

    I am gay, and I definitely did have a moment about the genitals at first, but I kind of came to the conclusion that although it's something I will have to get used to, especially if he encorporates it into sex, it's not really a deal breaker? I'm attracted to men, and he has the qualities I generally find attractive in men in terms of style, hair (facial, body, etc) and presentation, and while I definitely enjoy dicks in certain contexts of sex, they're not the be all and end all for me if that makes sense. I've been with guys who were assigned male at birth who didn't want their dicks involved with sex too, and I also kind of realized that I wouldn't date/am not attracted to any women, including trans women, even if they have a penis, so it seemed weird for me personally to exclude a partner I really like and see a potential for a long future with on the basis of his genitals.

    Conversion therapy bullshit. "Getting used to vagina". That's what gay men were forced to do for centuries. And if it doesn't matter if your date has dick or vag then you aren't gay.

    I've actually had the thought that maybe this would be harder on me if I wasn't a top and had some particular attachment or attraction to the penis in general, but I don't know if that's weird or not weird.

    I have seen shit like this in a thread here before. Somehow "top" means that vagina is no problem for gay men. What a load of bs.

    I don't think it is at all. he presented himself as male because he is male, and when it came time to have sex, he disclosed the information. I don't see why trans people should have to lead with that when those of us who identify as our assigned sex don't.

    OP is nuts and disgusting. A woman bullshitted her way into a relationship with a gay man and came out to him only when the clothes came off. OP claims that she did the right thing. But what about the stuff before like kissing and touching?? That's ok apparently even tho consent only existed through lies & deception.

    OP even wrote that she told him that gay men ended the relationship because they found out she was a woman. So she did the same shit before. I feel sorry for these guys. They touched and kissed a woman because they were being lied to and this asshole pretends that it's ok because she told them the truth later.

    Also his last sentence makes to sense. What should gay men disclose?? "To be honest...I have a penis." ??? Or what?? Bullshit, bullshit, bullshit.

    I don't see how the existence of his vagina makes me no longer gay? I mean, I'd never had sex with someone with a vagina before because most people with vaginas identify as women, but he's still a man? like I wouldn't date a trans woman, regardless of if she had a penis or not, because I'm not into women, so...?

    And there we have it. Exactly what the trans people invading lesbian & gay spaces are claiming. Note how he turned from "I want to learn" to "gays can be attracted to vag" which makes me think the thread is most likely trans fanfiction: Gay man learns to overcome his boundaries and becomes a good trans ally. 😒

    thank you! I feel like unfortunately there isn't a lot of information in general and I feel like, as a gay male, there's a lot of transphobia in gay male circles unfortunately.

    Aaaaand he is complaining about the gay community because gay men refuse vag and that's transphobic.

    Either this thread is trans fanfiction or this gay man is out of his mind. His comments are full of homophobia.

    [–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah 22 insightful - 2 fun22 insightful - 1 fun23 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

    I would lay odds that this was written be a trans "man", so yeah trans fanfiction.

    [–]ArthnoldManacatsaman🇬🇧🌳🟦 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

    I don't see how the existence of his vagina makes me no longer gay? I mean, I'd never had sex with someone with a vagina before because most people with vaginas identify as women, but he's still a man? like I wouldn't date a trans woman, regardless of if she had a penis or not, because I'm not into women, so...?

    That irritating upward inflection I can hear in my head really shouldn't be reproduced in text. It bothers me.

    [–]les4leshomonormative 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    It also strikes me as a mostly female mannerism, or at least that's my experience on the internet lol

    [–]luckystar 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    This definitely reads like it was written by a woman. Of course men can have that writing style too, but it does make me a bit curious.

    [–]Three_oneFourWanted for thought crimes in countless ideologies 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    I find it very hard to believe someone is actually this brainwashed. This has to be completely fake, it hits all the buzzwords and important points like a fiction novel hitting character development opportunities

    [–]haveanicedaytoo💗💜💙 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    It feels 100% fake to me too, because "he" isn't really asking anything. There is a list of bullshit questions at the end of the propaganda piece, and they are all things "he" could easily figure out by asking his girlfriend. The whole point of the post is to show that real gay men don't mind vagina. They might be confused by vagina, but if the vagina belongs to a man, then of course, it's not a problem. "He" is also using TRA terminology that he claims to be not too familiar with, like "assigned female at birth."

    [–][deleted] 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    I think it is written by a transperson (male) and is fake all day. Probably thinking it is another way to indoctrinate the masses. So clever.

    More woke points.

    [–]Seahorse 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Yeah this seems fake af. And a possible reaction to the push back against the trans cult on Reddit atm.

    [–]ThrowMeAway2879 9 insightful - 4 fun9 insightful - 3 fun10 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

    Definitely trans fiction.

    But just on the off-chance it isn't, I'd hope he'll report back if his downstairs brain won't stand to attention when faced with vagina.

    [–]TarshishJupiterpolitically homeless 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

    Whoa, why all the awards?

    [–]Rosefield[S] 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Because someone "supports" a trans person and not only that but a gay man does it.

    [–]LasagnaRossa 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

    Woke points

    [–]TarshishJupiterpolitically homeless 5 insightful - 4 fun5 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

    Oh, so that's what woke points look like!

    [–]luckystar 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    The comments there are pretty sickening. It's all about what the trans person wants. Over and over "he [sic] might not want to use his vagina". Not one "As a gay man, it's okay for you to not like vagina". I guess only trans people are allowed to have boundaries.