LesbianIt's not ok to make trans "lesbians" sad by pointing out that men often say "You haven't tried a good dick yet"

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[–]RedditHatesLesbiansHomosexual Not Queer 19 insightful - 3 fun19 insightful - 2 fun20 insightful - 3 fun -  (4 children)

This linked edit makes me want to vomit: https://www.reddit.com/r/actuallesbians/comments/15ha8u/on_dating_trans_women_and_transphobia/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

Ew ew ew ewww. As a lesbian, fuck these people. I feel so genuinely disgusted.

I've become mostly desensitised to the cotton ceiling rhetoric but god, this is so homophobic and so rape-culture-y that it makes me sick to my stomach. I don't want to date MALES. I don't care if they have a gaping flesh wound between their legs, I don't care if they "pass" as out society's sexist idea of what a woman is after 50 surgeries and a pound of make up.

I don't want to date ALL transwomen because they're ALL MEN and I'm a LESBIAN. Jesus Christ, I don't know how anyone on that sub is a real lesbian at all, I don't know how they can stand to read that bullshit without leaving immediately. And that link is from 7 years ago! These beliefs are so much more prevalent now. Some fucking fetishist gave it silver. Leave lesbians the fuck alone.

Needed to get that out. I mean, omg.

[–]VioletRemiCat, homosexual one 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

When half topics on the "Actual Lesbians" sub are all about men (especially posts like this, lol).

And other half of topics are just pictures or photos of lesbians, almost like /r/Lesbians, but without porn.

woman who does not currently have the genitalia you prefer

It reminds me our disabled people cathegory burocracy. So if you are lacking both legs, you need every 6 or 12 months (depends on your cathegory and tax exemptions) to go into the hospital and into the municipal authorities to get it prolonged. Like those people will ever grow legs back. Same is here - if they do not have genitals I prefer, they will never have them.

[–]LasagnaRossa 6 insightful - 4 fun6 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 4 fun -  (1 child)

especially posts like this, lol

This is so stupid, my god. YOU CAN'T FEEL SOMETHING YOU NEVER HAD, GODDAMMIT!

If tomorrow I start telling people I feel the wings I don't have but should have behind my back, they would worry for my mental health!

[–]hufflepuff-poet 7 insightful - 4 fun7 insightful - 3 fun8 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

He's thinking with his "ladydick".... very straight male of him.

Seriously, I feel bad for the lesbian who received that text, this guy is awful.

[–]reluctant_commenter 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I know. I felt so sick reading that for the first time. It's amazing how self-centered and lacking boundaries someone must be in order to say such horrible things.

"You just need to learn to like trans dick" and yet, if someone said to a trans-identified male, "You just need to learn to like your own dick and accept that you're a man", they would lose their goddamn minds.