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[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 25 insightful - 1 fun25 insightful - 0 fun26 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

A lot of them view it as a club for misfits where identity alone buys you friends and some level of protection. Some people truly are identity voids and devoid of their own personality and interests.

Also if you have issues and/or are a garbage can of a human being it can be easier to have a ready excuse for why you elicit bad reactions from people. “I don’t need to do anything to change. They’re just bigoted.”