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[–]SeasideLimbs 17 insightful - 5 fun17 insightful - 4 fun18 insightful - 5 fun -  (2 children)

I identified as bisexual in a few places online. It felt closer to being honest. As someone with no sexual experience outside my one partner, it felt hollow, though. I could fantasize about being with faceless men but gay men IRL did nothing for me. I could not imagine the relationship I had with my partner happening with a man. Imagining myself being attractive to straight men though, that felt validating, and I had to fight that sense to stay closeted to myself. I still felt honest saying I was not straight.

Best summary of pseudobisexuality yet.

[–]Criticallacitirc 9 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Nothing homophobic about only being attracted to straight men but not gay men 🙄🙄🙄

[–]SeasideLimbs 15 insightful - 3 fun15 insightful - 2 fun16 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

This, though I don't even know if it counts as homophobia when it's really just someone seeing literally the entire world through the lens of his fetish. "Straight men liking me makes my pp hard cause it means I'm a hot bimbo" vs. "Gay men might actually want to be with me... Eww. Why would I wanna do that?"