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[–]reluctant_commenter 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I didn't even know this sub existed, there are so many damn subs for trans people. I wonder if any of them realize how trans-dominant Reddit is.. and Tumblr.. and like everything else...

I feel like part of being a lesbian isn't literally just finding a woman attractive, but somewhat being involved in the culture, the media, a certain humour, the fashion etc.

Well, then I am failing at being a lesbian, lol.

Edit: Also-- I don't know why people seem to think "lesbian fashion" is a conscious choice. I wear a ton of plaid but I never did it to "look lesbian". I looked like that even when I thought I was straight. I just liked it. It was hilarious to me to find out after I told my friends about my same-sex attraction how common it is to wear a lot of flannel, among gay women.

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Dude, straight chicks stole 90s lesbian fashion like 5 years ago, flannel isn’t even gay anymore, neither is having a shaved head or docs, and flannel. They probably stole carabiners too

[–]reluctant_commenter 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I am constantly behind the times, so that checks out hahaha. I will happily wear my plaid anyway. Maybe in another couple decades it will go out of mainstream fashion, but I will still be here!

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I want “ugly man-hating dyke” fashion to be ugly again.