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[–]Wandering_Idiot 1 insightful - 4 fun1 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 4 fun -  (4 children)

I'm a demisexual. It falls under asexuality normally, and we like to be apart of the LGBT because many of us are sort of sudo bisexuals. I'm personally more likely to connect and form emotional attachments to my own sex (female) because I find women easier to bond with as they are normally more emotionally open and expressive.

[–]Shinjin_NanaNopes faster than an Aeldari Jetbike 26 insightful - 2 fun26 insightful - 1 fun27 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

if you want to fuck someone, ever, you're NOT asexual.

That word does not mean temporarily celibate by choice or otherwise. It does not mean needing an emotional connection to want to fuck. It means just not interested in fucking.

[–][deleted] 18 insightful - 2 fun18 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

For real, wtf. Some people want to fuck less than others but it doesn’t mean they are asexual. Lol

[–]Shinjin_NanaNopes faster than an Aeldari Jetbike 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

It's like, heterosexual, otherwise normally sexual people are looking to shoehorn themselves into LGB.

As an ace I don't even think that ace is LGB unless they're romantically same sex attracted (such as two ace women, two ace men, or bi in a non-sexual relationship) and then it's not the asexuality it's the same sex attraction. Not every movement is for everyone, no matter how they stretch it.

[–]INeedSomeTimeAsexual Ally 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

As a fellow ace I also agree. We have AVEN as our community.

Also the idea of spectrum always infuriated me. Imagine being asexual but when you read these asexual forums they feel like normal sexual people talking. I think I feel even more of a weirdo because of these spaces than because of straight people.