"Is it okay for me to be a lesbian and not like penises" (Actuallesbians)

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[–]hufflepuff-poet 38 insightful - 3 fun38 insightful - 2 fun39 insightful - 3 fun -  (4 children)

It makes me so mad and sad that a lesbian feels like she has to apologize and justify her exclusive same-sex attraction ON A LESBIAN SUBREDDIT! And she had to use a throwaway cus she's probably gonna get banned for even sharing her discomfort with dick.

And then some MAN has the AUDACITY to suggest she "get therapy" to like dick AND GETS UPVOTED?!?!!?! If this doesn't peak the remaining lesbians on that sub I don't know what will.

[–]FediNetizenSuper-semi-bisexual (i.e. straight) 27 insightful - 1 fun27 insightful - 0 fun28 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's like the old days when straight men would try to sleep with lesbians, except even worse because somehow they've convinced the lesbians that not wanting to sleep with them means they're bad people.

[–]Lessom 23 insightful - 1 fun23 insightful - 0 fun24 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

This. The treatment of lesbians on that sub and in many other subs is beyond disgusting.

It's like how dare a woman only be attracted to other females and not a male? Wtf.

I'm worried for young impressionable lesbians being coerced in this shit.

[–]VioletRemiCat, homosexual one 8 insightful - 4 fun8 insightful - 3 fun9 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

It is like living in homophobic country (but where homosexuals are not killed by law), just much worse.

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡[S] 15 insightful - 2 fun15 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

You should see the comment they deleted, it's the worst! I was quick enough to screenshot it, it's on one of my comments here the link from imgur

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡[S] 28 insightful - 2 fun28 insightful - 1 fun29 insightful - 2 fun -  (8 children)

You have no idea, but they deleted one of the comments (I should have taken a screen shot) from a trans woman complaining and saying she was being "shitty" and that genital preferences were bs ugh

EDIT: Actually, I could screenshot it (as I still had it opened on my phone. Tomorrow I'll learn how to put in imgur and share it here) :D

EDIT 2: Here it is the DELETED terrible comment http://imgur.com/a/nZ94LC1 (if you have problems watching it, please tell me, I'm new to imgur)

EDIT 3: THEY ARE DELETING ALL THE BAD COMMENTS. Haha, they say it's something "TERFS are making up, too late cause I screenshot it

[–]FediNetizenSuper-semi-bisexual (i.e. straight) 33 insightful - 1 fun33 insightful - 0 fun34 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Honestly just being told to get therapy is plenty. That is literal advocacy for conversion therapy because of your sexuality.

[–]FediNetizenSuper-semi-bisexual (i.e. straight) 30 insightful - 1 fun30 insightful - 0 fun31 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

EDIT 3: THEY ARE DELETING ALL THE BAD COMMENTS

This is like the reverse of when that MTF was on some trans subreddit talking about how happy he was that he was able to walk around a woman's locker room naked and no one confronted him about his penis. He even specifically mentioned that he got dirty looks "but no one said anything".

There were actually comments from trans people saying this wasn't OK and would hurt trans acceptance, but they were being deleted. This was a couple years ago when the Gender Critical movement wasn't nearly as big, and they still apparently felt like they were unquestionable.

Now the backlash is growing, and they know it, and they know that people are watching these subs, so now mods are trying to hide that entitled trans perverts are a thing.

[–]hufflepuff-poet 24 insightful - 1 fun24 insightful - 0 fun25 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Wow that comment peaked me again!! I would never describe the way trans women larp on that sub as "meek", this is the most aggressively male behavior I've seen in awhile. Bleghh, the mods had to delete that comment or else every lesbian would've immediately peaked.

[–]julesburm1891 19 insightful - 2 fun19 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

We are literally called TERFs by them because we aren’t into penises. How could we even be making this up?

[–]Sittingonarainbow 15 insightful - 3 fun15 insightful - 2 fun16 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

That was truly atrocious spelling; these people write exactly as I would expect.

[–]Feather 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I looked at his profile. He clearly puts a lot of effort into spelling things as badly as possible. Clearly he thinks it's "girly" to write like a moron.

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    [–]automoderatorHuman-Exclusionary Radical Overlord[M] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

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    [–]julesburm1891 24 insightful - 5 fun24 insightful - 4 fun25 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

    The top comment is interesting. “You don’t have to date someone with a penis. That’s a terf misconception.” BUT ALSO “you have to include transwomen in your dating pool.” Name one way that isn’t telling lesbians that we have to be into dick.

    [–]haveanicedaytoo💗💜💙 20 insightful - 12 fun20 insightful - 11 fun21 insightful - 12 fun -  (0 children)

    It's not okay for anyone to not like penises. In fact, it is against the law.

    [–]quickbeam 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

    Remember like 3 years ago when woke people pretended to care about rape victims for a while? I guess that's over.

    [–]VioletRemiCat, homosexual one 6 insightful - 4 fun6 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

    They were just upset that those victims are not their victims.

    [–]Ambisextrous 16 insightful - 8 fun16 insightful - 7 fun17 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

    Lol at some of the comments saying nObOdY sAyS tHaT” and then other comments actually saying that not having trans women in your dating pool is transphobic.

    [–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    I could have never imagine, not even in a million years, that we would see shit like that. It's a nightmare.

    [–]a_blue_bird 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

    Honestly, I can't be bothered with those people any longer. If you have such a low sense of self worth that you feel you must go online and ask strangers whether you need to start sucking dicks for them to like you, then it's a lost cause and that's the end of it.

    [–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Or she's a very young girl who is being brainwashed by the trans cult.

    [–]Gearbeta 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

    Idk I suspect that many of the people asking that are young and if theyre young their local community may be infested with TRAs. So they may be getting told by their peers that you're a bigot for not liking one set of genitals or may be getting sexually harassed by a TRA. This is why we need to reach out to them and hopefully have them come here so they can get good information not gaslighting from TRAs

    [–]mangosplums 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Honestly someone like this could use a thoughtfully written PM telling them that there's nothing wrong with their sexuality. Someone here should do that.

    [–]quickbeam 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    I care about people with low self-worth. People with low self-worth need the help of loving people who respect their right to have boundaries more than other people need them, not less.

    [–]Archie 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Never forget that something like 30% of reddit is under 20 years old. Most likely it is a young, still naive girl still learning how society works. Not only we gotta have mercy with them, we kinda should try to save them from TRA propaganda.

    [–]bisexual_ubermenschstanduserkin 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    someone in the comment actually suggested 'therapy'. What the fuck

    [–]hufflepuff-poet 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Do these people really think an actual woman's pussy is the same thing as a mans chopped off dick?! This shows so many people really just see a woman as a hole that can be fucked, a neovagina is not the same thing as a woman's female sex characteristics unless you think female sexuality begins and ends at "hole dick go in".

    [–]oyasuminasai50 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Imagine caring what random people on the Internet think about you and your tastes? One of the beautiful things about leaving adolescence and young adulthood... you stop giving a fuck what strangers think.