Hmm, lets see...

transwomen: death threats, rape threats, phobia accusations, lovely posts along the lines of "I am a better woman than you are, you hairy barren stinky vagina bitch cunt die die die!!!", biphobia, bursting a woman's skull in MMA fight and bragging about it, stealing medals from women who worked hard to get where they are in various sports for decades, denying biological sex, chromosomes, anatomy, breastfeeding babies while on cross sex hormones, raping women in women's prisons, murdering a lesbian couple and their adopted son, accuse people of genital fetishism. have the same rate of criminal behavior as males before transitioning, supporting transing kids and putting them on drugs that could cause serious long term health issues, want to pee in women's bathrooms and refused trans specific shelter in UK because validation of their egos is more important then their murder rates, false trans murder rates reports, racist and homophobic slurs thrown about because in the Oppression Olympics nobody hurts like on average white middle class men in dresses, claim that you don't have to have gender dysphoria to be trans, invading women's shelters, taking political seats away from women of color...

transmen: some of the younger ones read way too much into gay or yaoi manga thinking themselves a dude, think they're a gay dude and invade gay spaces when clearly not wanted. some of them seem chill tho, and keep to themselves.

For now, i am going to go with transwomen.