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You should go with what makes you happy. But I feel the need to point out, you dating him after he transitions wouldn't make you gay either. I feel like straight women use "I'm not gay" as the politically acceptable excuse for not wanting to date a transwoman, but the truth is you don't want to date a man pretending to be a woman and that's fine.

No one who dates him will be in a lesbian relationship either. He's a man no matter what he does.

[–]buhnahnuhbr3ad[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah, my father told me something similar. I'm always afraid of looking like a jerk and I always risk my wants/needs for someone elses. And you both are right; it's okay for me to not be attracted to certain things. It just feels unacceptable in this day and age nowadays.