So, to be honest, I'm married. But I'm married to a bi guy (I'm a bi girl) and we have.... an understanding. I guess you would call it an open marriage, but honestly it's kind of less salacious than that. An open marriage to me sounds like we're constantly out banging other people. We're honestly way more boring than that, but, I mean, occasionally you get an itch to scratch, if that makes sense. It's more like "every once in a while, do your thing boo, just don't bring home drama or diseases" because neither of us is here for that.
Anyway, I have recently been very pursued by a trans woman of our acquaintance. Her argument is that since I like both "genders", and I'm in an open marriage, I should be cool with getting with her. Nah. I'm not into her for a variety of reasons that would be very rude to mention. But honestly I'm not really into trans women at all, at least the ones I've met. I'm not saying I could never be into a trans person, because who knows? But I find that I haven't been in to any thus far, and I feel like that's okay, since it's my body that we're talking about. Was told I'm just transphobic. I told her I'm not a mindless sex doll "despite" being bi. Lol Like in fairness, I'm not attracted to everyone of either sex OR gender. I find I'm attracted to people rarely. But apparently since I'm bi, I should be down for anyone or else I'm transphobic. Is this a thing that my other bi sisters and brothers are experiencing? Cause I'm really over it already.