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[–]quickbeam 46 insightful - 5 fun46 insightful - 4 fun47 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

It's the same for dating transwomen. Anyone who thinks a neovagina is the same as a vagina does not have much experience with or knowledge about vaginas. I saw a transwoman talking about how they were surprised that vaginas need to be cleaned all the time, and I'm like, "no, they really don't." It was sad to read. It feels like people are having these surgeries without being given a full enough picture of human biology, the complications that may result, the realities of daily maintenance, etc. This lack of knowledge may result in them genuinely not understanding other people's sexual disinterest relative to their expectations.