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[–]Criticallacitirc 76 insightful - 7 fun76 insightful - 6 fun77 insightful - 7 fun -  (11 children)

The post refers to it as anti trans rhetoric "In our spaces"

"Gaybros" was clearly started for masculine gay men. The use of bro was obviously to keep even femme men out. To think it is a space for FTMs 🙄

[–]PostmodernJukebox 51 insightful - 21 fun51 insightful - 20 fun52 insightful - 21 fun -  (0 children)

tras think all spaces are for them...and nobody else. its like this comic: https://pbs.twimg.com/media/D9CAP1xXoAICO-q.jpg:large

[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah 28 insightful - 9 fun28 insightful - 8 fun29 insightful - 9 fun -  (7 children)

There are no "masculine gay men" in gaybros and haven't been for a long time. It's a bunch of whiney screaming queens obsessed with stalking straight guys and "transmen" of this ilk.

[–]annatheginguh 16 insightful - 3 fun16 insightful - 2 fun17 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

That sub is deep in the uncanny valley holy shit

[–]Dravidian 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

This sub almost gave me whiplash. Why. Why would you want any of that. Why make it so stupidly, unnecessarily complicated just for attention.

[–]muhgurldick 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

These children are going to be SO embarrassed when they are older and realize how r-slurred they were.

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They live for attention. They feed off of it.

[–][deleted] 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Simply put, that is a shitshow and they are in need of psychological intervention. I am really kind of floored.

[–]OPPRESSED_REPTILIANIntersex male | GNC | Don't call me "a gay", "twink" or "queen" 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

When I posted there I got unwanted comments about my femininity and how I should take testosterone (totally ignoring the fact that would most likely fuck up my health) because I "needed to become a real man to be happy." So I don't think that's entirely true. Seemed to me they had a bit of a masculinity obsession over there.

[–]Liz-B-Anne 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Holy hell, that sub is making me reach for the eyebleach. I don't know whether to laugh, cry or cringe at those gals & their glaring cognitive/personality problems. Part of me wants a list of other subs of that nature just to browse & "educate myself" so I can be less of an "ignorant TERF" but the other part just wants to sleep soundly again this week.

[–]ks00 9 insightful - 7 fun9 insightful - 6 fun10 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

There's nothing more "gaybro" than fucking a pussy. lol

[–]oyasuminasai50 7 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

this isn't the real world. this is kindergarten where EVERYONE has to be included at all times uwu

[–]112223sps 55 insightful - 9 fun55 insightful - 8 fun56 insightful - 9 fun -  (0 children)

Maybe they shouldn't be celebrating and helping get our subs banned if they don't want to deal with actual homosexuals in their QT+ safe spaces. The thing is, we have always been in these other subs they're all claiming we're brigading, they're just extra sensitive right now since the banning of all GC type subs. And sure, maybe they are having an influx of GC people disagreeing with them, but I mean, what are they going to do about the naughty brigading down voters or commenters? Get our subs in trouble and banned? Oh wait.. Lmao Deal with it you fucking homophobes.

[–]LilianH 52 insightful - 3 fun52 insightful - 2 fun53 insightful - 3 fun -  (4 children)

There is no hope left for Reddit. After driving all gay men and lesbians off the site they'll turn on some other minority. Any social media that allows mass reporting eventually ends up with the majority bullying minorities they don't like.

[–]davids877Straight Male Man 25 insightful - 3 fun25 insightful - 2 fun26 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

I just don't really understand where the TRA majority came from. Are there really that many men(and presumably women) on the TRA train? Or is it just that the not-TRA folks are simply going "eh, whatever those crazy LBTQIAEIEIO folks are up to we're just going to stay out of it".

[–]jiljol 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

There is no "TRA majority"; they are a fringe percentage of the population. What happened was that they have been manufactured and astroturfed to be the Issue Of Our Times. Opposition to any of their demands then becomes a civil rights abuse.

https://medium.com/@sue.donym1984/inauthentic-selves-the-modern-lgbtq-movement-is-run-by-philanthropic-astroturf-and-based-on-junk-d08eb6aa1a4b

https://www.spectator.co.uk/article/the-document-that-reveals-the-remarkable-tactics-of-trans-lobbyists

[–][deleted] 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It is a cult.

[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They are tied to the sjw's so its alot of non trans heteros and lgbQ+ helping them dominate everywhere.

[–]davids877Straight Male Man 35 insightful - 16 fun35 insightful - 15 fun36 insightful - 16 fun -  (12 children)

I know it's not my place. But I think the Gay Guys should embrace 'TERF' as well, just replace Feminist with 'Bundle Of Sticks'.

[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah 45 insightful - 38 fun45 insightful - 37 fun46 insightful - 38 fun -  (6 children)

I already do. I'm a Transrealist Extremely Radical Faggot.

[–]notdelusionalbased faggot 16 insightful - 3 fun16 insightful - 2 fun17 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

You're the guy who is AGAB, right? I always thought that was hilarious and clever.

[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 3 insightful - 5 fun3 insightful - 4 fun4 insightful - 5 fun -  (1 child)

Nope

[–]notdelusionalbased faggot 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

oops, still getting used to new screen names, it's sort of fun trying to figure out who was who

[–]Willpoll 14 insightful - 3 fun14 insightful - 2 fun15 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

I hope you don't mind me stealing that

[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah 14 insightful - 5 fun14 insightful - 4 fun15 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

Not in the least

[–]PenseePansyBio-Sex or Bust 3 insightful - 4 fun3 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Oooh, I wanna try! :)

I'M a Transrealist Extremely Radical... uh... Fag-het?

(Well, the only other begins-with-F synonym for "bi" that I could come up with was "febfem", and I'm kinda an equal-opportunity lech, so I guess this cobbled-together linguistic atrocity will just have to do!)

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 10 insightful - 4 fun10 insightful - 3 fun11 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

TEHM - Trans Exclusionary Homosexual Male. Feel free to call me that as a compliment.

[–]fuck_reddit 8 insightful - 6 fun8 insightful - 5 fun9 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

THIIS I was called a "anti-gay" and a "TERF" as a right-wing gay guy... it's so wild to me how loose the term TERF has gotten. I embrace my new TERF-iness!

[–]PostmodernJukebox 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

i hate saying it but i had that thought too lol...

[–]Revision10Just a guy 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

I saw "TEHM" as Trans-Exclusionary Homosexual Male

[–]transphobicfaggot 2 insightful - 5 fun2 insightful - 4 fun3 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

I for one find the word faggot very offensive.

Now good day to you Sir.

[–]cutenoobies 39 insightful - 2 fun39 insightful - 1 fun40 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Oh i hope they come for them the same way they came for us. It will definitely peak more people.

[–]11mile_house 39 insightful - 2 fun39 insightful - 1 fun40 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Oh my god they won't stop until every LGB sub is just T.

[–]Rosefield 34 insightful - 10 fun34 insightful - 9 fun35 insightful - 10 fun -  (0 children)

Trying to fight "transphobia" by making more people reach peak trans.

[–]Some-unoriginal-guy 34 insightful - 2 fun34 insightful - 1 fun35 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

The T sounds so much like a cult nowadays

[–]materialrealityplz 23 insightful - 5 fun23 insightful - 4 fun24 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

It's part of the wider wokeism, which is basically a religion.

[–]Lessom 28 insightful - 5 fun28 insightful - 4 fun29 insightful - 5 fun -  (2 children)

lol at 'For the blessedly uninitiated'. Who the fuck do they think they are?

[–]annatheginguh 28 insightful - 3 fun28 insightful - 2 fun29 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

The are literally policing wrongthink and attempting to eradicate it. Fuck that so hard.

[–]fijupanda 26 insightful - 6 fun26 insightful - 5 fun27 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

imagine what kind of oppression these poor folks are facing in their lives that they have all this free time to scan sub by sub for all things transphobic.

[–]Dynged 23 insightful - 5 fun23 insightful - 4 fun24 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

Imagine thinking that people being tired of their shit is a fringe movement and not the groundswell of opposition it actually is.

[–][deleted] 22 insightful - 5 fun22 insightful - 4 fun23 insightful - 5 fun -  (1 child)

the way this is worded is hilarious, this person sounds so entitled and they're exaggerating it so much. "rabid transphobia" and "transphobic hate movement" they want pity so bad

[–]zeusdx1118 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That's the entire movement. That's all trans rights activists do. Meanwhile their main arguments for their cause are a bunch of made up delusions revolving around their own dysphoria. And they act like they expect people to not see that or something.

[–]Criticallacitirc 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

There's two pretty active posts about being inclusive to trans people . Pretty sure both are just targeted posts to get the sub labeled as transphobic & deleted.

[–]Ossidiana 19 insightful - 2 fun19 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

I mean..... good. Yeah, this is good. Those idiots are pushing things more and more and more. This will only get more and more people to join our side. The more they search for new people to drive away, the more they will get new people against them. Thankfully they're so stupid they don't realize they are literally creating an army to oppose them.

[–]Feather 8 insightful - 3 fun8 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

They think that if they insult, threaten, and drive away everyone who doesn't toe the line, they'll be left on top. They think they're climbing over the rest of us to reach glorious heights.

In reality, if they insult, threaten, and drive away everyone who doesn't toe the line... they aren't gonna win the "lonely little club of assholes" vs. "everyone else" fight.

[–]arc-en-ciel 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Now that I've had to move away from Reddit for my daily dose of LGB exclusive content, it's like watching a ship sink from afar. The more subreddits they try and sink, the more survivors will join us on land.

So to the TRAs, I say go for it. Try and get every gay subreddit cancelled until the rest of LGB Redditors realise there's no place left for them in subs like r/actuallesbians that've been taken over. They'll turn to us, and leave the lgbtqiaxyzz32d7h28hmhw+ echo chamber.

[–]CleverNickName 19 insightful - 2 fun19 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

The constant straw-grasping. The askgaybros thread he/she linked has barely 200 comments, most of those tangled up in inane back-and-forth, and the most "transphobic" one, which just goes "redifining homosexuality to include gender-identities is erasure and homophobia" has a whopping TWELVE upvotes.

Rampant transphobia across the board, as you can see.
... Unless the "live and let live" comments higher up are also "transphobic" because they don't explicitly worship the ground their women-feet walk on. Oh gods.

[–]MyLongestJourney 17 insightful - 5 fun17 insightful - 4 fun18 insightful - 5 fun -  (2 children)

First they came for the lesbians...

[–]lazy-summer-godSuper Gay 5 insightful - 4 fun5 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 4 fun -  (1 child)

Then, the trans nation attacked...

[–]PenseePansyBio-Sex or Bust 7 insightful - 6 fun7 insightful - 5 fun8 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

Beneath the clownfish banner, clad in their fearsome combat uniform of programmer socks, chokers, and catgirl-ears, with a bloodcurdling battle-cry of "REEEEEEEEE"

[–]lazy-summer-godSuper Gay 16 insightful - 2 fun16 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Ahh, now I understand the unreasonable amount of downvotes in my comments. Someone called for aid.

[–]MarkJeffersonTight defenses and we draw the line 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The outrage mob will never be satisfied. They'll always overreach in their purity spiral and destroy themselves.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 14 insightful - 2 fun14 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

Hey guys. Deleted my Reddit account a few days ago. Been a while since we've last spoken. Anyway, I know this comment is late, but I have an opinion on this and I would like to share it with you lads and lasses. Here it is:

Let them.

Seriously, fuck r/AskGayBros. They have cheered on our subreddit and related subs getting banned. So yeah, let r/LGBT and their lackeys get that sub banned. Those pindicks at AGB wanted our spaces taken away from us. Let it happen to them, and let's see how they will like it. I've had some of those assholes whine "Reddit is a private company so they can do what they want!" They won't be spewing this platitude when their own sub is gone. And when the time comes, I will be satisfied. But they are welcome to come on here when they grow some maturity. But they've made their bed, so they should lie in it.

[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They really believe the gender stuff. But yeah, let them lose it.

[–]Revision10Just a guy 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They have cheered on our subreddit and related subs getting banned.

Not really, no they haven't. The recent posts show some divide but moreso in the favor of anti-TRA and you can see it in the comments especially. But then we got brigaded by r/lbgt and diluted the votes

[–]Femaleisnthateful 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

We need a term for all these 'cis gay male terfs'? How about 'gay males'? Or, 'humans'?

[–]INeedSomeTimeAsexual Ally 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Wow they are so desperate, aren't they?

[–]Enabuwu 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Of course.

[–]JulienMayfair 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

There's always been a pretty large percentage of men on AGB who will state directly that they are not interested in trans men when the question comes up. I don't know what the crossover is between gaybros and droptheT, but I think it's pretty substantial. It will be interesting to see if it continues to blow up on AGB, and I wonder about the extent to which r/lgbt members are brigading r/askgaybros.

[–]fuck_reddit 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yep, there was one larger thread where someone posted about "trans-exclusionary" spaces being banned and how gay men should just deal with it. Over half of the comments were opposing the OP and saying gay men assuredly DO need their own spaces away from trans people. Even some trans men were saying the TQ crowd is dominating LGB people. Anyone that opposed the TQs though were labeled as "imposters" who were "invading" AGB after DropTheT got banned.

[–]Ambisextrous 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I’m proud to say it is some of my comments they are talking about hahahaha, I’m more than happy for them to try and shut down one of the most popular gay Male subs, lets see how well that goes for them.

[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Keep up the Good work

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Great user name, btw. I am never very good at coming up with a clever or original user name on the spot.

[–]Ambisextrous 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I wish I could say it is original, I used to think I was bi and it was a meme going round, but thank you! I like yours too, very descriptive. :)

[–]oyasuminasai50 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The word "transphobia" is thrown around so liberally it has become effectively meaningless.

[–]zeusdx1118 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

"Is to try to censor them..."

Is that where that last part was going??? Lol

[–]PInkier 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They have bent over to the TRA nonsense just after you posted that. How sad.

[–]DimDroog 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Haha.

Good.

IIRC, they banned posters from the r/RightwingLGBT, for reasons.

I think it's hilarious that now they're being targeted.

[–]Prowindowlicker 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I really want to know why they think the people they banned would just suddenly disappear? Do they not understand anything about how humans work?

[–]Revision10Just a guy 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Lol and the thread was started as tongue-in-cheek

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

When we step back from all of their hot air, it really is so simple. Biology matters. Transmen are women that take testosterone.

They were born, grew up and were/are socialized as women. They still have female genitalia. Testosterone did not magically turn them into men. They did not grow a penis. Sexuality matters. It is the core of all humans. We can’t force ourselves to be sexually and emotionally attracted to what we are not.

This is homophobia pure and simple. We know who we are, even if in the beginning of our journey we were scared and wished that we were straight.

No one has the right to ignore our biology and our sexuality. That is what the TRAS are telling us to do.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I have not really been around gay men since several very close friends passed during the AIDS crisis. Never did any of them refer to themselves as femme. I may be assuming, but did this come about with the advent of the TRAS?

For lesbians, some of us refer to ourselves as femme, butch or androgynous (or anywhere on the spectrum). I had no idea gay men did that, too.

[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

not femme, no. That's def the new gender speak, back then it was straight acting and then there was the QUEEN lol.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

How could I forget about queens! The difference is they loved camping it up, it was always in sly fun, kind of tongue in cheek, never taking the camp too seriously and they all stated that they were gay men.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Moving those goalposts again. They think the world revolves around them. Lesbians did not really pushback in the beginning. We should have. I hope that they don’t succeed in killing ask gay bro’s.

[–]marmorsymphata 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Can't have the gay men thinking for themselves now

[–]OPPRESSED_REPTILIANIntersex male | GNC | Don't call me "a gay", "twink" or "queen" 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

This is strange because I remember askgaybros being nothing but a far-left, "trans-inclusive" dumpster fire. I think I asked for advice on there once or twice and all I got was "hAvE YoU TrIeD DaTiNg A TrAnS MaN" and "stop being sex negative, BDSM anal prolapse is EMPOWERING and wholesome!"

[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

probably was, the ask gay bros over 30 could be like that and they were more mature. But mostly relationship advice.