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    [–]RatherSmallPotato 2 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 3 fun -  (5 children)

    Having anorexia doesn't mean you're actually fat

    Interesting analogy. Because we're giving gastric band surgery to the anorexics to humour them.

    [–][deleted]  (4 children)


      [–]fuckupaddams 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

      Are you joking?

      [–]tvk30nctqf 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

      I hope they are. They should have probably put the /s at the end. Sarcasm without tone some times does not come across well in text.

      [–][deleted]  (1 child)


        [–]fuckupaddams 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

        I don't believe "cross dressing" is a real thing because I believe at the end of the day clothes are just fabric and don't inherently belong to one sex (hence you get all those young tomboys hating that they keep getting put in frilly dresses) my issue lies with telling children they are the opposite sex/gender/whatever for their fashion/toy choices and confusing the shit out of them, even worse putting them on hormones. We need to stop gendering everything when the only things that are gendered are our bodies, our primary and secondary sex characteristics. Everything else is stereotypes or regressive sex roles and is confusing the shit out of everyone which is blatantly obvious

        [–]GConly 14 insightful - 3 fun14 insightful - 2 fun15 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

        Here for real talk/research on my foreign limb disorder...

        I have some BIID and trans mri links cached.

        Relevant brain part (IFOF) and other conditions it's relevant to.

        My sympathy, that has to be uncomfortable.

        There is a link between trans and BIID, about 19% of BIID cases are also trans, from 15 years ago. There's no way it's an accidental relationship.

        The part of the brain that is abnormal in trans brains has to do with body perception, anxiety and all kind of weird mental health issues. I wouldn't be surprised if you'd see an abnormality in BIID there too.

        The connection with transsexuality is especially intriguing due to the percentage (19 percent) of BIID patients who also exhibit a gender identity problem and the high percentage of homosexual and bisexual BIID patients (also 19 percent) (First, 2005; Lawrence, 2006).

        Clinical and Theoretical Parallels Between Desire for LimbAmputation and Gender Identity Disorder

        Desire for amputation of a limb: Paraphilia, psychosis, or a new type of identity disorder.

        All subjects were asked if they ever had ‘ feelings of wishing to be the opposite sex, or having the feeling of being in the body of the wrong sex ’. Ten subjects (19%) said yes; the majority of whom (n=7) reported some history of cross- dressing behavior (not including those who only cross-dressed as part of transvestic fetishism); six out of the ten reported thoughts of getting sex reassignment surgery and one did.

        [–]NotYerWorthlessWurm[S] 7 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

        thanks! lots to read tonight

        [–]GConly 6 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

        You're welcome.

        [–]jet199 12 insightful - 3 fun12 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)


        I'm currently using s/therearetwogenders as an open to everyone gender critical space for the most ridiculous stuff which everyone can agree is crazy.

        There's also s/gendercriticalguys if you want a more sensible discussion.

        I think there's a GC/QT debate sub too.

        [–]Canbot 11 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 2 fun -  (21 children)

        Their goal is literally to push kids into mental disorders while their brains are still plastic, then when they get old enough to know better they can't get out of it because their brains aren't plastic any more. That is why they demand that everything under the LGBT umbrella is "decided at birth and you can't change it". It is their way of heading off people defending kids from their propaganda. 90% of transgender kids who get therapy and go through puberty normally grow out of it. That is the vast, vast majority. And the LGBT community, with all their power over media the schools and government, are literally putting these kids on hormone blockers and forcing their parents to "affirm" their psychosis.

        I'm sorry for your hardships, but everything LGBT is evil. They don't want to help you, they want to mutilate you in a way that makes you join their army of mutilated people.

        [–]fuckupaddams 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (19 children)

        everything LGBT is evil.

        You're conflating gay people with trans people. The former is sick of the latter's shit, and the former believes that the latter is to blame as to why public opinion on the LGBT is deteriorating. s/lgbdropthet

        [–]DisgustResponse 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (10 children)

        LOL, as if GRIDS-purveying sodomites are any preferable.

        [–]fuckupaddams 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (9 children)

        You're making yourself needlessly miserable by being so actively upset at 2 men or 2 women loving each other. It is really not a big deal.

        [–]DisgustResponse 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (8 children)

        STDs are a big deal. Low birth rates are a big deal. Dysfunctional families are a big deal. The collapse of public and interpersonal trust is a big deal. Losing your job because you didn't treat some neurotic faggot with kid gloves is a big deal.

        Keep repeating the lie to yourself that your choices don't affect others, even strangers.

        [–]fuckupaddams 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

        I'm literally a woman who has a boyfriend. I'm not the one you're pissed at. I still feel like you're confusing gay people with trans people or autogynephilic men (men who get aroused pretending to be women.) There's nothing all that exciting or controversial about a person living a normal, quiet life with a partner of their same sex. The "freaks" you see in LGBT are more likely to be the T. Besides, you can't just make somebody stop being gay so really there's no point in being mad.

        [–]Airbus320 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

        All lgbt people are gross

        [–]cure_osa_disorder 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

        STFU homophobic racist

        [–]fuckupaddams 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

        Are you a christian?

        [–]Airbus320 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

        a jesuit jew like u/Jesus ;)

        [–]Jesus 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

        I'm a modern futurist Jesuit ashkenazi Jew who teaches universalism and relativist morality because that's just what they, I mean, we, preach.


        [–]cure_osa_disorder 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

        STFU homophobe

        [–]DisgustResponse 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

        Take your HIV pills.

        [–]Canbot 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

        I'm not. You are conflating gay people with an organization that includes gay people. There is an ideology and an agenda that is pushed by the group. There is a mob mentality. Like in all mobs there is a lack of accountability, escalating viciousness and immorality. If there are gay people who do not agree with the ideology and the agenda they should not be supporting the organization or waving the flag. Just like there are white people and there are Neo Nazis. White people who do not agree with the ideology of nazis should not be waving that flag. White people are not evil, nazis are. Even the nazis who support the organization but don't agree with all the raicst shit. They still support the organization and are responsible for that contribution. Same with gay people.

        [–]fuckupaddams 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

        If there are gay people who do not agree with the ideology and the agenda they should not be supporting the organization or waving the flag.

        Yes... that is why there is r/lgbdropthet. LGB people have things in common, T is the odd one out and plenty of gay people are waking up to this and trying to separate the groups.

        [–]Canbot 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

        You don't need to turn a sentence into a word. LGB should suffice. And my problem is with the attack on children. It is the most despicable thing humans have ever invented. Anyone supporting it in any way is evil. The LGBT community is the spearhead in that attack. And it's not just trans people, its all the participants who call themselves allies. They are allies of evil.

        [–]IridescentAnaconda 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

        Those of us who frequent s/LGBDroptheT are not allies of "T" and we are opposed to the despicable things being done to children. You see more seeming support for "T" among us because those of us who oppose "T" are being systematically erased. Our subreddits are routinely cancelled, we are silenced on FB and Twitter etc. Social media wants the public to conflate LGB with T.

        [–]Canbot 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

        I see that happening, and I don't want to be swept up in that. I am not putting all gay people in the lgbt box. That is the movement, and the organization. It's the participants, the allies, the flag wavers, of that organization who are the problem and most of them are not gay.

        [–]IridescentAnaconda 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

        I get that. I'm not supportive of LGBT organizations precisely for the reasons you mention. But I do feel a need to reinforce the point, that LGBT organizations do not necessarily represent the views of gay people.

        [–]fuckupaddams 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

        It's the participants, the allies, the flag wavers, of that organization who are the problem and most of them are not gay.

        Yes, we know this. "LGBT" "allies" are more concerned with trans/"queer" activism than gay support. They are often straight themselves, yet tell gay people they're phobic for not wanting to sleep with trans people/say anyone who doesn't want children pushed into gender transition is phobic. That's why lesbians, gays, and bisexuals (LGB) are trying to separate themselves from that madness, all that nonsense has NOTHING to do with being same-sex attracted, it's an entirely unrelated agenda and the TQ is harming public opinion on "gays" since they're all being lumped together. LBG has to run to saidit to talk about it because reddit/twitter/fb shuts down any conversation that's anti-TQ, especially if it's lesbians who are complaining about males invading their spaces/beds.

        [–]GConly 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

        Look up the LGB alliance.

        They have had enough of T's shit.

        [–]jackiesboyfriend 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

        Get em hooked on drugs young.

        [–]proc0 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

        There are only two possibilities: you have the seed or you have the egg. This in turn forces your reproductive strategy, which there are two because there are two roles in reproduction. Thus we get two genders, which are simply stereotypes of variations of these two strategies that differ based on culture/civilization.

        The reason many religions see deviation from the traditional gender roles as a threat, or as "sin", is because they necessarily mean deviating from the already established reproductive strategies, which threatens the species reproductive success and basically kills the species slowly.

        What is going on today with intersectionality is basically elevating gender to the status of self-identity, equating who you are with your reproductive strategy. A very sad bastardization of the human identity. That is why it cannot be criticized, since talking about that specific mind/body disconnect means attacking the individual's identity. Ironically, the ideology itself is the one reducing and simplifying the identities of their followers, otherwise there would be no need to protect them, since no one is really "questioning their humanity" and instead questioning the future of a society that is testing the reproductive strategies given to us by evolution.

        [–]madcow-5 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)


        Also, dysphoria is a minority of them.

        Most trans women are just a mix of gay men using a cheat code in life, or guys fulfilling a fetish.

        Most trans men are just standard lesbians manipulated one step further than normal lesbians and going on hormones.

        [–]fuckupaddams 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

        Most trans men are just standard lesbians manipulated one step further than normal lesbians and going on hormones.

        Or women who want to escape sexism/harassments/not being taken seriously by identifying as men/nonbinary/anything but woman.

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          [–]fuckupaddams 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

          I... am not a trans man lol. I also don't agree with it. I'm just explaining the trans men thing.

          [–]369 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

          You've got an awful lot of catching up to do.

          Would you enjoy my catching you up to speed? You're hardly scratching the surface. Reddit can be a vicious place and, unfortunately, they hardly see clearly. There's an awful lot more that you aren't yet privy to, which they (Reddit and those like them) would prefer you not to notice.

          [–]NotYerWorthlessWurm[S] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

          hell yeah, plz catch me up on wth happened when youve got the time. Its insane

          [–]369 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

          Great. What kinds of things are you curious about?
          Maybe we can work with some other things you're currently struggling with.
          Just be warned: I'm not perfect or sentient. I try to stay as impartial as possible but still retain plenty of bias just like most people. YMMV, but maybe don't take that too far, since I'm sort of hanging around in places like this essentially just for the sake of people like you. There are plenty here who are already wandering off on their own with no need to be shepherded around anymore.

          No matter what anyone says to you here, even me, do your own research. Lazy people are extremely simple to identify. If you want to have adult conversations with people on the internet that will take you seriously (outside of Reddit, we're saying), you're going to have to actually put in and then convey that effort or people will just ignore you outright.
          But enough advice or whatever. Hit me with some questions when you have the time and I'll see about cluing you in however I can.

          [–]NotYerWorthlessWurm[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

          Whats going on with reddit behind the scenes, whats with the censorship everywhere, what did you see that an average redditor wouldnt know about? Are the admins there getting DNC or CCP funding?

          [–]369 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

          The last one is an obvious yes and I like to think it answers all of the other questions.
          See, the people you see talking about what the legacy media keeps calling "the Deep State" are doing it because they don't know what else to call it. That legacy media manipulates people in to being afraid of something they can't adequately describe. We can agree that some portions of the ones who pull strings from both sides quite obvious conspire to some degree, right? At the very least, we know there is some central group of people in the DNC, for instance, making a concerted effort to sway public opinion so that they'll vote for them, if nothing else. So, we know they have the intent and the ability to perform some kind of act like that. Shouldn't we assume that, at the very least, a small portion of that group might consider doing some nefarious act(s) to achieve these ends? As you can probably tell at this point, maybe considering the recent proposed spending bill, these people exists on both sides of the aisle, hence lawmakers recently passing a spending bill which included sending billions and billions to other countries when they're also telling us that people are dying in massive numbers while we can all tell how little so many people we know are working. Instead of giving citizens $2k, they gave them $600 and gave the rest away to other countries... Clearly they don't have our best interests in mind.

          So, here's the thing with Reddit itself: people like Tencent own portions of it, meaning China has its hands all over it. I'm sure that's not the extent of it though. I don't think we need to dispute the levels of influence figures like AOC or Sanders has on Reddit. The reasons for the censorship, particularly with the things you're talking about, stems from them wanting to curate discourse to their preference. But, why do they want to push certain types of conversations and not others? It's simple really - they don't give a shit about trannies; they don't care about blacks, they hate gays for the most part (clearly), most of them want nothing to do with minorities in general, but they talk about them incessantly. Why? So none of us talks about something else, something more important, like how our government officials spend our money, where all of the Military budget goes, why so many kids go missing every year, why we still explode liquid out the back of flying tubes to shoot them across the country to get people from point A to point B when we haven't needed that technology for over a century, why pharmaceuticals are worse than most alternatives somehow, why pornography addiction or divorce rates are so prevalent, why no one is allowed to go to Antarctica, and so much more.

          Maybe you should trust your government a little less and look up something called Operation Mockingbird.
          Remember, all of these things are relevant to your questions, but just not quite in the ways you might imagine. Take a second look.

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            [–]jet199 4 insightful - 4 fun4 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 4 fun -  (6 children)

            On Reddit there's plenty of guys who think psychoactive drugs turned them trans.

            [–]fuckupaddams 12 insightful - 10 fun12 insightful - 9 fun13 insightful - 10 fun -  (1 child)

            It probably turned them more empathetic and they confused that for being a woman lmao

            [–]jet199 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

            Nah, those drugs just loosen the connections in the brain and how they rejoin is random. Many users become nastier or ego maniacs and less empathetic over time as reaction to repeated ego death. It's always a risk you will come out delusional. I've known people become born again Christians after LSD trips, it's the same thing.

            [–]369 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

            More empathic

            You just mean having a higher emotional IQ, right?

            [–]fuckupaddams 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

            Empathetic... You know what empathy means yeah?

            [–]369 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

            I clearly misread that...

            [–]fuckupaddams 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

            All good lol.

            [–]NotYerWorthlessWurm[S] 2 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

            lmao i wish, all that happened was i punched things and saw demons

            [–]fuckupaddams 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

            Shrooms maybe?

            [–]Canbot 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

            If I were you I would not trust the "medical professionals" who claim to be treating you. The entire scientific community is clearly corrupt. Look for solutions on your own. I know that is such a futile sounding thing, how can one person solve such a huge problem, but when there are people working against you that is worse. You never know, maybe there is a simple solution that is simply being suppressed.

            I would start by looking at the mouse utopia experiment. I'm sure you have heard of it. You may not have heard of all the mental disorders that the mice eventually developed. They may be just mice, but the similarities to human mental disorders is shocking. This was brought on by the combination of overcrowding and the lack of competition. They had no territory, they never had to fight for food, there wasn't any violence in the "city". Those are the conditions that induced the disorders, and it wasn't rare; the entire population collapsed because they all developed these mental disorders within a generation.

            As an adult it may be too late, but I would try moving to the sticks. Live on a farm, as far away as you can manage. Take up masculine hobbies. Not pseudo masculine shit that the tv says rednecks like, but shit that actually is hard. Physically and mentally challenging. You need to do things that really challenge you. Set a high goal that you don't even think you can ever achieve and work your ass of to get it done. Get fit. Get callouses. Get away from people, especially the people in your life. The people you surround yourself with effect your mentality and clearly these people are not good for you. At least until you get your head straight.

            Don't shy away from trying psychedelics in a medial sense. Look into what helps people get over PTSD, and social anxiety. What your looking for is something that can induce plasticity in your brain. But that is not enough, you need to use that drug induced plasticity to alter your perception of yourself. While in that state do masculine things. Mediate. Try to force your brain to see you as a man.

            Good luck.

            [–]NotYerWorthlessWurm[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

            thats what ive been doing for years, it works well, keeps the dysphoria down to a minimum i can manage. I stay away from doctors, none of em are working their voodoo on me right now, and ive always seen myself as a man...didnt let biid fool me into thinking i was a woman. This is the best advice for any guy considering transition.

            [–][deleted]  (8 children)


              [–]fuckupaddams 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (7 children)


              [–][deleted]  (6 children)


                [–]fuckupaddams 14 insightful - 2 fun14 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

                But this is literally a gender dysphoric man trying to talk about his experiences. The conversation can't always be rainbows and glitter and hail HRT and girldick. No wonder he got banned for trying to talk about it in a real way, the not-glamorous way. They even hate detransitioners. Anyone who wants to get real about what being trans or having gender dysphoria is really like is killing the vibe and offending somebody, and then they have to run to saidit because reddit doesn't want that shit.

                [–]NotYerWorthlessWurm[S] 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

                yup this, plus letting off some steam last night

                [–]Canbot 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

                Why is criticizing the nasty behavior of that community not allowed? Every criticism isn't a phobia. You are clearly trying to put it on him and claim he is doing something wrong, when in fact the problem is that the trans community does not allow dissent.

                [–][deleted]  (1 child)


                  [–]Canbot 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

                  No you didn't, and that is the problem. I don't think you understand what I'm saying. He was banned because he is a dissenter, not because he is transphobic. You deny that the community is banning dissenters simply for dissenting, and then turn around and claim all the dissenters who have been banned are "transphobic" and brought it on themselves. You are name calling to justify the punishment. He is clearly not afraid of trans people. He clearly doesn't hate them.

                  While this title is a bit aggressive that is clearly due to him being frustrated and pushing the boundaries after having come out of a place where he felt constrained. No reasonable person would assume he was being so crass in a space full of snowflakes. But it is obvious to any reasonable observer that these ideas expressed in any way would make him a target in that community. His is not a unique experience. It is the status quo.

                  [–]gauntletwasagoodgame 2 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

                  This is getting so old. Someone create a bot that says the following every time this comes up because it shouldn’t be this difficult of a concept to grasp and it’s not rocket science =>

                  “Transgenderism is a mental disorder with a proven effective treatment which transitioning into the gender of your dysphoria. However you should not be allowed to participate as a female in sporting events because you have a biological advantage over people who are born female.”

                  [–]eiyukabe 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

                  I don't even accept that it has "a proven effective treatment through transitioning into the gender of your dysphoria." This conclusion is more activism and self-reporting than anything scientific. Like, if someone is addicted to alcohol, give them more alcohol and they will (short term) tell you you have made them happier! You have "cured" their "missing alcohol dysphoria!" But at great cost down the road.

                  The number of people seeking to transition has, surprise of all surprises, SKYROCKETED in concert with the activism and ideology around the trans worldview. They have constructed an illness while simultaneously prescribing the cure. It's like how autism became talked about a lot more in the early internet and LO AND BEHOLD every third person you ran across was "autistic."

                  [–][deleted] 1 insightful - 4 fun1 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 4 fun -  (34 children)

                  I think the disorder is really yours. There is a pandemic and fools are refusing to wear masks. But you take issue with people calling themselves girls. Cops have a licence to kill. But you are worried pronouns.

                  And if gender is a matter of procreation, then nobody has a gender until they have kids.

                  This particular change in culture is not very critical. Unless you are a Mormon. So become a Mormon or shut the fuck up.

                  [–]NotYerWorthlessWurm[S] 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (16 children)

                  Nah. Cults are for people that cant handle life, thats why im against all the authleft shit

                  [–][deleted] 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (15 children)

                  Mormons aren't left. They can usually handle life. They just share in your stressed induced pants shitting whenever a boy wants to be called a girl. I think that makes you people pussies.

                  [–][deleted] 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (14 children)

                  "A boy wants to be called a girl."

                  When I was a kid, I thought I was going to be black because I had black aunts and uncles. I would say "When will I turn black?"

                  Imagine if I were raised to believe that I wasn't actually white, but I was black. Imagine what would happen. Are you basically saying that boys can be girls, whites can be blacks, and words don't matter?

                  [–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (13 children)

                  Words aren't like strict syllogistic lemmas derived from immunible axioms. At best, language has a circular logic, which isn't really logic at all. Words are a form of art. Boys calling themselves girls is somewhat artistic.

                  [–][deleted] 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (12 children)

                  You have no idea what art is if you think boys calling themselves girls is somewhat artistic.

                  [–]eiyukabe 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

                  They have no idea what language is either if they think words naturally create a circular, unsupported, flimsy structure instead of eventually converging onto meaningful objectively verifiable concepts.

                  [–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (10 children)

                  Yes. It very much is. Ever seen a tv show called 'drag race'?

                  [–][deleted] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (8 children)

                  Why would I ever watch tv?

                  [–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

                  So you are an art expert who doesn't like trans people? Or TV. I doubt you are a real art expert.

                  [–][deleted] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (6 children)

                  Some say that art is subjective, but it isn't. Art isn't just blah blah blah look at some color, some lines, I say I like this, you say you like that.

                  Created or produced objects are only to be called art if they are healthy, and there is a lot of shit out there people call art which is not at all healthy for the mind or the heart (like the pedo statues of the elite, and you with your drag BS)

                  [–]fuckupaddams 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (16 children)

                  But you take issue with people calling themselves girls.

                  This is a total non-issue for you? Can you conceive of the implications here, or how this affects women and girls? Words have definitions and they have power. You have men claiming titles meant for women, positions meant for women, checking off the diversity box meant for women. Reports of bathroom assaults are already documented, no longer theory - people can't raise eyebrows when a male walks into the ladie's room and that makes all the difference. Lesbians are being banned from lesbian spaces for not wanting to have sex with males who think they're women. Children are being told that men can have vaginas and women can have penises with absolutely no clarification that that's not exactly true, just that males and females get cosmetic surgery to look like the opposite sex sometimes. Young boys are getting castrated and put on hormones for picking up dolls, this is the threshold for them being "girls," as if no one's ever heard of a tomboy. I'm not being paranoid, this is literally what's happening. If you don't know this, you're not paying attention.

                  [–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (15 children)

                  You should become a Mormon. The reality based world is abandoning prejudices.

                  [–]fuckupaddams 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (14 children)

                  You keep mentioning Mormons and I have absolutely no idea what the fuck you're talking about honestly, sorry.

                  [–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (13 children)

                  Being Mormon (or something like a Mormon) is the only good reason to resent trans people. Yes trans are usually ugly. Yes it isn't always easy to call a he a she. But they are nowhere near the most troublesome people, unless you must maintain a strict patriarchy everywhere.

                  [–]fuckupaddams 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (11 children)

                  Lol....... what. Re-read my previous comment about all the problems that come with calling men women. You seem confused.

                  [–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (10 children)

                  They aren't real problems. The biggest problem is that most trans women are ugly. But that just makes me appreciate other chicks more. The real problem is your discomfort. And your discomfort makes you a pussy.

                  [–]fuckupaddams 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (7 children)

                  Get your dick caught in your zipper moron. You people make saidit look like an insane asylum.

                  [–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

                  See. That's what I mean. The real problem is that you fall to pieces of nothing. Which makes you a pussy.

                  [–]fuckupaddams 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (5 children)

                  I'm not in pieces, you're just too retarded to keep arguing with. I'm sorry

                  [–]Airbus320 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

                  Rapist detected

                  [–]cure_osa_disorder 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

                  Racist detected

                  [–]Airbus320 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)


                  [–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

                  Welcome to Saidit. I hope others here can offer support. I admit I know only one person who might admit to having dysphoria, and this person is - after years of difficulty - managing very well in recent years. From what little I know about the circumstances, one of the primary difficulties is that dysphoria, sex and gender are very different for everyone, and that it's thus unlikely that anyone on Reddit or Saidit will have the ability to offer substantial support, given the general lack of knowledge about the medical profession and their inability to understand the variety of potential cases. We are however large audiences who may know people with similar concerns, and might be able to offer stories about them. There are however many who will pass a quick judgement without the appropriate understanding and will not provide links to their resources. I hope you will be able to avoid those people. As for my friend who may have dysphoria, this person is doing very well, though it was very difficult to arrive at a solution.

                  [–]CarlDung 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

                  gay shit is deviant and they should be purged

                  [–]fuckupaddams 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

                  Liking the same sex is NOT the same as cutting your dick off and parading around pretending you're a woman. Gay people are getting sick of the association. s/lgbdropthet