You can call me whatever you want, and I won't be offended. You have rights. Though I would prefer that in social contexts I'm treated as a woman. In regards to sex, I'm male and that's how I want it to be treated. Chromosomes ain't got no'n to do with how I dress or behave, but they do have biological implications.

That's why I generally support separating gender and sex, since a transwoman still has male biology and a transman still has female biology, but they have the right to dress, behave, and set forth preferred manners of address. No one, however, should be required to address someone in a manner they believe to be appropriate.

I don't want to be pretty or desirable. I want to be a good person. Materialism has made people obsessed with appearance and sex, a byproduct of Capitalism and Socialism. I pass as a woman, but it doesn't matter to me what folks think about how I look. If I'm ugly, so what? This obsession with making other people like how you look is what drives people to suicide, both cis and trans (though, as you pointed out, more prominent in the latter). It's rather degrading, as well, as you make yourself into a product to be sold to others. I'm not going to be a product.