You might have to get rid of the idea that they hate women. They, as in trans-women, maybe a few, but not society at large. That is not what is to blame for current transgender wokeness. Women are some of the most coddled class of people in society, in general. It is just that there is a subset of women, which stray from general women's consensus, get censored. Male voices who run counter narrative to female victimhood are regularly censored. We are still a gynocentric society. If this place supports free speech, you might feel disappointed that some of your beliefs will not be validated here, either. In the long run, allegations of hate against women will probably be ridiculed here, I expect, because they simply do not correspond with reality. I do not wish to gloat and say "now you know how it feels to be on the other side" and I do not wish to be rude, but to say that most woke circles hate women is absolute nonsense. If anything, women as a group are the most likely to eventually percolate up the oppression stack again, and they are some of the first groups, such as lesbians, who can present some pushback against the current narrative, who are like Rowling and can point out this nonsense. Women are typically the moral arbiters of society, the "fairer sex", the "moral gender". You might want to read some books on the subject if you do not believe me. In a few years, women will be at the top of the hierarchy again and I will probably receive little more than condescension, as I expect myself, as a male, to have remained in the same position for the long term future.

I hate to say this, but if you want to defeat transgenderism we are already seeing the beginnings of what will be effective: prortray the narrative that this is hurting women and society will turn on a dime. You only need a few good, emotional pictures of women being hurt by trans people and this will be passing trend. The only way trans-women have made any, surprising, progress was precisely as presenting themselves as women, as victims, playing on our gynocentric inclinations. Trans-women that pass particularly well are usually shown in the media and whenever trans-women like the Gamestop He-Ma'am get into the news, the support evaporates. There, however, the target of abuse was male, so less significant.

Again, I hate doing this, but if you want to push your movement forward you would show more pictures of Fallon Fox beating up women. The problem is that these women do not look all that feminine, either, but it will do the trick. Society will rush to the pretty, crying woman's defense, and even though trans-women are trying to play the same game, women still have the edge in that game. Women will always have the biological advantage, which is far more enduring, so the transgender trend will be nothing but a passing trend. If this was about transgender people, why do you think you see so many more trans-women in the media and not trans-men? They are not as presentable. They do not make as good of a victim, because they do not emulate women. There might even be more trans-men than trans-women, but who are we making a fuss about? Not trans-men. They become invisible, like the rest of us. This is not about trans-people, this is about a group of (perceived) women who are being wronged. Once they are no longer perceived as women, their movement dies. End of story. It's not that different with black people and migrants. Many of those SJW groups are headed by women, because the sisterhood decides who is a victim. In the eyes of the western childless woman, these people are like children, to be protected. The sisterhood decides who is predator and who is the child, and, in many ways, black people are like children. You can see this in the condescending way leftists tend to speak to them.

White liberals ‘patronize’ minorities while talking – but conservatives don’t, study says

https://www.miamiherald.com/news/nation-world/national/article222424675.html

I do not know anything about you as a person, but I do no expect to get a factual, non-emotional response, based on my past experience, not because I wish to offend you. I do wish you all the best and I wish some of the women now who are losing their place in the oppression hierarchy would remember this time when time comes to remember marginalized, censored groups of men who are abused, but I do not expect that to happen on a large scale. There are some people with a view that is a little more sober, such as Karen Straughan, Janice Fiamengo, Camille Paglia, or Erin Pizzey.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ix5-jqQYU1M

Again, your problem is not with society's hate against women, or even that of Reddit, but with running afoul of what the rest of the sisterhood decided is program right now. Even Reddit is just an extension of that. Especially the story of Erin Pizzey might be illustrative and illuminating for what you are going through now, because women, too can be at the receiving end of the sisterhood's violence for those who violate party line. That is why feminism, among other reasons, has always been a very vindictive, censorious movement, why many of our academia are in the state that they are in, and why the Internet is seeing increasing censorship, in many cases as more women enter social circles, such as video gaming, streaming, social commentary, politics, etc. Women tend to protect their own, but they also tend to drive towards more consensus, cohesion and their biggest weapon against other women tends to be expulsion, ostracism. That tends to hurt women more than men, who typically use other forms of aggression, violence, not relational aggression. It's the mean girl clique, not the fight on the school yard after which two boys might shake hands and move on.

Again, you have all the power. You just need to convince the rest of the sisterhood. Then you get MeToo, Title IX, VAWA, Duluth Model, sentencing bias, women's quotas, female only scholarships, special job trainings, an entertainment industry that overwhelmingly portrays men as fools, glorifies women, protects them from false allegations, sends men to wars -- and will still portray them as victims after. There is one thing feminists really are right about: If you have privilege, often times you don't see it. It's like trying to explain water to a fish.

https://hooktube.com/watch?v=CjsDtXYh3k4

Anyway. Welcome to the other side of the oppression hierarchy. You have all my solidarity and support, even if I do not expect to get anything in return ...