This is very well stated and I agree. Your life is well and completely determined since it began all your life experiences, employment, relationships are all out of your control. Its just some people like us, who are born in the worst generation to be a man and be born with the most unwanted characteristics have had our condition worsen to which we can do nothing about. Even If you push for "success" or worked for it no one will validate it for who and what you are.