I don't get acts of kindness and being thankful for them.

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[–]scumyaal 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (9 children)

Maybe you're losing it, brocel. It's just courtesy to thank someone for doing them a favour. If anything, this is actually brutal potent suifuel as she neglected to tell you to your subhuman face.

[–]Mazurro[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (8 children)

I know, but it's normal to say it directly after imo, it's weird when it's done hours later, maybe I am fucking autist, but I don't get it

[–]scumyaal 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

You're doing exactly what I would do in a situation like this; do not dwell on it brocel, over-analysing the situation is a waste of time and can even cause unwarranted stress.

[–]Mazurro[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

I know that, but lately a lot of absolutely illogical stuff happens - small, minor and absolutely irrelevant situations, which my mind doesn't leave without overthinking. My sanity is almost drained completely and I know nothing at this point.

[–]scumyaal 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

Hmmm, what kind of situations?

[–]Mazurro[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

There was one time where I couldn't connect to a meeting on class, multiple people have written it on messenger at the same time, I have written it like 1 minute after them, one foid added me to the meeting and I saw that none of the previous people were added.

There was one time when I was standing in the bus stop going back from uni to home (I am always leaving uni first and I am like 2 minutes ahead before everyone else, since I don't have any friends there with whom I talk) and another foid had approached to ask me about stuff which was related to the upcoming exam, however, answers to questions she asked were already known, explained and generally I don't think that asking them was needed by her - so I was thinking for a long time why she asked me about this, what was the point.

Also, there is one who always upvotes anything what I write in chat about plan organisation (they can't make decisions anytime, or to discuss anything), whenever I write sth she likes it almost instantly, but she doesn't like other posts, which is either mocking me ironically for what I write or idk.

Those are probably just made up scenarios in my mind but, well, I'm going insane.

[–]scumyaal 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

sniff sniff smells like Chad to me! Go ask one of those bitches out.

[–]Mazurro[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

This can only result in rejection and it will make me overthink even more. I won't do that

[–]asterias 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Then she will stop bothering you in order to be useful to her. Maybe try something like "I'm a bit tired, why don't we go and have some coffee at the nearby cafeteria so we can discuss?". If the foid says something like "I don't have time" or "I have a boyfriend", then you say "OK" and just leave.

[–]Mazurro[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I mean, it's really high IQ approach - to get peace by doing that, but it might lead to consequences sadly. If I could do it like that, I surely would.