I can’t even make friends WTF

submitted by No1stupid from self.Incels

My personality has eroded after years of being alone, so I really don’t know how to act around other people anymore.

I’ve been trying to make friends with this guy I work with, but I’ve run out of things to talk about, and I can’t just start casually dropping blackpills and incel rhetoric even though it’s my main area of expertise.

I’ve even tried making friends with some furries online since I am less intimidated by them, but even they rejected me from their group because I’m too boring.

I say “Hello.” and then I don’t know what to say after that. What do people even talk about?

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[–]OPisaFAGGOT 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I have the same problem tbh. I even stutter and slur my words

[–]Vortex 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Just solitudemaxx. Be sure 99.99% of people you met in your life are simps/bluepilled cucks that can't be your friends by design.

[–]basedandblackpilled 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yep.. I realized it is better for me to just be alone than to interact with these people.

[–][deleted] 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

to be friends with guys I think you gotta talk about sportsball, or smoke weed or drink alcohol, or play video games altho you nowadays mostly can play video games online and don't need to hang out in person for that like I did as a kid. Most normie guys spend most of their time with their gfs where they listen to them prattle and nod and wait till they can have sex.

[–]Narcotic 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Every little thing makes me so angry and nervous. I've gone my entire life being treated like shit, why should I be expected to be anything else. Everyone's just so inhuman and mean.

[–]avoidantcel 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

hummmmm maybe work on ur personality inkell???????

[–]automoderator[M] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Personality isn't that important to most women. They often emphemize personality for good physical looks and social status. When gangbanger Jeremy Meeks was released from prison for robbing and beating another boy close to death, his girlfriend married and had children with him. Meeks improved his personality so much that he later cheated on his wife with a rich bimbo and didn't even feel bad about it.

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[–]Chadlick 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

its not you, even a lot of normies are having the same problems.

once you reach a certain age making new friends becomes impossible, because people lose naivity of childhood, stop trusting each other and all responsibilites of adult life make them give no shit about others around them.

the only reason people keep others around them is because they are using them for something.

trust me, even if you could "make friends" you seriously wouldnt want it once you realize what is really going on.

[–]legendaryabyssking 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Me too I have basically been beaten down by life. My isolation just makes me feel a dull sadness

[–]DrowningogglesIII 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Same. Its been an extremely frustrating development because I used to make friends so easily until I moved about two years ago. I have one good friend who is a fellow loner, we occasionally get stoned together over the phone and talk for hours on end, but that’s about it. I hate sounding so self-superior, but the conversation I hear normal people make seems very bland and insipid from the outside. They make the most obvious points in the world, crack lame jokes, etc. Everything about them is essentially an underwhelming reflection of the ideal you see on TV, and their awful charade is just depressing to watch tbh. I observe the same things in myself whenever I open my mouth, so I just do it a lot less now. Twenty years old and I feel twice my age.

[–]Wesborlandisagod5 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

you got kik bruh!

Unfortunately most people don't talk about anything interesting.

Interesting conversation is hard to find