How the fuck are girls so confident in themselves and “above it all” by as early as 19-20 years old?

submitted by No1stupid from self.Incels

Just got a new female coworker at my job, and at age 19, she has the “I’m so much better than you, dude” vibes radiating off of her. I’m 26 years old, so why the fuck don’t I have even a shred of the sheer confidence on display that she has?

My questioning is rhetorical of course, I know that she receives positive reinforcement from any and all sources, but she has NO REASON to be as aloof as she is.

For one, she’s pregnant at 19 (because of course she is) with no college degree, which means that she has a long financial struggle ahead if Chad dumps her (which is highly likely in teenage relationships).

And also, she fucking smokes. With a developing baby in her uterus. Incredibly low-iq decision.

I just can’t fucking stand how she acts like she’s so much better and smarter than me when she’s making every boneheaded decision she can possibly make at a young age. I’m 26, and she treats me like I’m a 12 year old.

She even had the gall to call me “sweetie” the other day, as if to imply I’m a child.

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[–]Administrative_worth 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

You nailed it, that how you "tur out" by around age 21 is dpendent on your feedback loops. WHy do osme chads and a lot of foids seem so calm and confident? WHy can't I be like that? Because for the past decade life has been one big party.

They might stress out once a year over exams. But that's it.

Meanwhile you in the negative feedback loop are told daily, by indirect actions, you are not worth much. When your bosses speak down to you. When people avoid you. That look of disgust most foids give about 80% of guys. You're asailed by negativity, because people could care less or are even hostile to some degree.

Honestly. Don't take their bullshit. I call it out hard, or make a joke of them now. WHat they're doing is effectively stealing your energy. Like a vampire. "If I show his disdain that makes me better" attitude.

If you call it out. Make them feel small.

[–]No1stupid[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I would love to call them out, but a fellowcel on this forum recently pointed out that not taking on a simp role around women can have disastrous results.

I will be perceived as unnecessarily cruel for calling a foid out on her bullshit, since most men never do. I could lose my job if a foid chose to complain to management, since male managers view them as cute little angels, and female managers will back them up because “girl power”, and the “Us girls have got to stick together, right?” mentality.

I have seen a mentally-handicapped kid get fired at a grocery store I used to work at because multiple women came forward and said he “made them uncomfortable”, simply because he was socially awkward and couldn’t hold a conversation. He was never violent towards anyone, and was also very nice, but they eliminated him from the herd because his conversation skills didn’t please them. This is evidence enough that women hold more power over us than we would like to admit.

[–]Administrative_worth 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Women run society. They're the judges who decide hwo has a nice time and who doesn't. It was actually me who pointed out the dangerous consequences of not ismping. That being said, low inhibing doesn't mean you just stop playing the game. It means finding every opportunity to rise above the game. It means throwing out backhanded remarks, eroding their body confiednece lsowly. And delighting in it. Low inhibing doesn't mean going crazy. It means having fun in the world. ALso educate yourself on workplace laws. Now if I ever get a complaint, or whatever, I just acuse them of workplace bullying. Which it is. Those accusations are serious, and if they fire you, and you took it higher up, you can get a serious payday.

[–]Goodmorning 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

What a disgusting degenerate. That girl is an absolute selfish rat and should never be a mother. I feel bad for you that you have to endure such an insufferable cunt. Of course, if you say anything about it you'll be the bad guy. Avoid this cunt as much as you can. I hope her baby kills her upon birth. Needless to say, she shouldn't raise a kid.

[–]basedandblackpilled 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I've always got this impression from women. I wonder how they can speak confidently while being nothing but a warm sexdoll. Where does it come from?

At the same time, I have accomplishments that are outside my looks, and I cannot do the same.

[–]darkclouds77 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Ive noticed this pattern of women making the exact wrong decisions all the time, 24/7. I don't think any women has common sense I think they have common propaganda but they don't interface with reality at any point. That's why even a dumb man is more likely to innovate than an intelligent woman, men interact more directly with reality in every sense of the word.

[–]Wesborlandisagod5 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

yea get used to it this is the age of the female.

Who gives a shit about a college degree all you need is connections. She can have about 50 thousand dollars a year just by making youtube videos about being pregnant.

Stay focused

[–]ReeferMadness 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

My self esteem never came from compliments or other people's opinions. It came from personal successes. Especially from times that I didn't think I could do something, but put in my best effort anyway and was able to get it done. It came from building up skills that most people never knew I had because you don't go around doing those things and even if people know you can they don't understand how difficult it is or how much work went into it.

And so many times I would overhear people saying that I have unearned confidence. People who always quit as soon as something becomes difficult, and never even attempt things they aren't sure they can do.

Don't be like that. Don't be jealous of other people's confidence, you just end up being bitter and wasting your time trying to tear down others instead of improving yourself.