OK I'm done obsessing over women and my failure to attract any. Now what?

submitted by AnaBanana from self.Incels

My life is empty now. I'm unsure what to do with myself. Been down the mgtow road, the hobbies thing, gymcelling, career cucking, everything. There's nothing left for me in this world except to age out and die.

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[–]OPisaFAGGOT 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

go MGTOW and enjoy life without a woman

[–]Yaspis 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

GYOW

[–]shitforbrains123 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

can't tell if you guys are shitposting or not kek

[–]AnaBanana[S] 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Thanks frens for the replies. I'll go back to what I liked before getting interested in the womens. Going to get back into PC Gaming and Mountain biking. Trying to do that love, accept, and be kind to myself shit along with absurdism for a philosophy.

[–]yocrappacrappa 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Fuck knows.

[–]Administrative_worth 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Legit? Don't worry. Women only judge you based on looks. Everything they view about a man is viewed through the lense of his genetics. ALl it means if you're excluded form them is they don't like how you look.

Honestly. Bro maxx. Find friends if you can. It will be tough, there are so many cucked dudes these days, and thirsty guys who's only mission is to get laid, and try and larp as a chad.

If you can find some good friends. Drug maxx with them. Music and party maxx. Mainstream society has nothing to offer you in reality. Unless you think you can wagie and break free and make it rich, don't bother busting your ass and your spirit for the system. FInd a decent job you can do. IT, Accounts, Trades, then drug on the weekend. Go on overseas trips with the lads.

Yeah mainstream society will look at you and cringe. But legit, you'll have a great time. ANd you'll piss the normies off.

You see, most normeis are miserable people. Chasing something they will almost certainly never get. Being a rich chad. Or marrying a rich chad. Most of them are full of failures and resentment. It's why so many of them are hostile.

Once you accept it's over. You can begin to find happiness. You begin living for you. You begin lifting for you, and so you can party and dance and makel ife easier. You get your cardio so you can dance longer. You do meaningful things with your time.

[–]AnaBanana[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

You're right. I really do have shitty genetics and any kids I spawn would struggle. It makes sense but it's still painful. Bro friend maxxing does help alieviate some of the loneliness being more social. I'm 37 and have an IT admin job and my house is paid off. Will just have to find purpose in bro social connection and other activities. Just hurts knowing I'm genetic trash and for that I have to suffer but I suppose it's good to know there's a reason which is out of my control.

[–]Administrative_worth 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

DW man. Don't want to humble brag or make you feel bad, but I looksmaxxed, and managed on a good day to hit chadlite status. Took ages of dedication, and I did it for career purposes, not foids.

The attention I got from foids though was disgusting. ANd you know when they treat you nicely, it's only because of how you look. A lot of chads who are blackpilled hate it too. Even then, they don't care about what you're saying. When you look shit, women just disagree with you or ignore you. When you look good, they just nod their head. They aren't really listening beyond gleaming information that could be used to get closer to you, they're just going throw the body language signals of saying "I'm interested"

[–]AnaBanana[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I tried for years to looksmaxx but always failed. Unsure if I wasn't disciplined enough or my bones/genetics are just shit. Lost 50lbs, increased my lifts, but still short, baby faced, built like a butch lesbian with thunder thighs.

So women are just NPCs they respond positively to a good looks and it's as simple as that? Must feel fake and weird knowing how they treated you before.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

high IQ

[–]basedandblackpilled 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It is probably best to create some kind of minimalist lifestyle away from everyone else. Try learning some survival skills, go out into the woods, explore on your own. Go to new places on your own. Maybe these things can add some meaning in this dead culture.

[–]shitforbrains123 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

i would say carve your own meaning. if women come into your life, fine. use them as you please but never get into the BP mindset that they "love" you and care about you. IME, this point where you start cucking is when they immediately lose attraction so its kind of impossible to find real love in 2019. you can still cultivate good friendships, have loving pets and family, etc. but women are not dependable nor were they ever, but in 2019 men are trained to believe we can "depend" on them (becavse equality) so its always hard to deal with. they don't want us the way we want them, i guess is what i'm saying. you have to be your own rock. its lonely af doing this but i've never gotten sound advice or counter arguments showing me a different way.

[–]basedaf1 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I just went skeet shooting, thats fun. If you're done with girls, you're fucking whores right?

[–]letsgobish29 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

wise old sage mode

[–]Wesborlandisagod5 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

don't be a bitch and send me a message i'll give u my kik I need some black pills friends

[–]AnaBanana[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I don't have a smart phone or tablet so no kik.