A girl at work confronted me about being a virgin, can I press charges?

submitted by No1stupid from self.Incels

This girl at work (who is truly a she-devil, in how she talks with a fake, condescending lilt to her voice, and always tries to manipulate the social atmosphere) asked me if I was a virgin.

This came completely out of the blue, and it caught me off guard so I stuttered when I replied and said, “N-N-No...” and then fell completely silent, so she could tell I was lying. She clasps her hands to her mouth and starts holding back tears of laughter. I just sort of stood there awkwardly and shuffled my feet. After a minute of her gasping for breath, she turns to me and says, “Just making sure.” and then giggles to herself for the rest of the shift afterwards.

Can I press charges against her? I feel humiliated, and violated, and she had no right to know that. My virginity is none of her fucking business, and she’s probably going to tell all of my other coworkers to smear my name.

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[–]mrchoco4 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

how old are you? :)

if you are in highschool DON"T WORRY about it:) but if you are in your 20's legit come out as gay/pangender/gender dysphoria (you don't have to take dick up the ass or wear a dress or if you want to wear a dress to be low inhib)

go RIGHT to H.R and explain that she assumed that you should be having sex with women and laughed at you. say it made you feel harassed and that she assumed you were straight when in reality you are sexually attracted to men and you feel that she was making fun of your homosexual sexuality

try to get her fired! if they are not convinced maybe wear a dress to work lol EMBRACE the CRAZY in clownworld! honk! honk! motherfucker!

[–]No1stupid[S] 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

It’s scary how this actually might work. I can turn the clown world against her, and make her pay dearly for virgin-shaming me.

After all, why is virgin-shaming still a thing in the current year?? Aren’t we too “woke” for that??? She should be CANCELLED

[–]Riceand420 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

You must go to hr. But be warned hr is spherr full of women and cucks.

So be prepared for gaslighting.

If they are gaslighting make sure to say: Oke lets reverse this if a guy worker asked this to a female would it then be appropriate. Or would it be appropriate to ask how maby guys she slept with, if she swallows.

[–]mrchoco4 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

no drooling brainlet that won't work! in clownworld logic and reason go out the window. you need to lean into and embrace the crazy of clownworld!

if they don't believe him he should come to work the next day in a dress with a lawyer lol

[–]mrchoco4 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

let us know how it goes

[–][deleted] 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

virgins aren't a protected class so no sjw cares about virgin shaming. If you're a straight man you're basically fucked because you can't play any kind of oppression olympics, but it'd be interesting if you actually told them you identify as literally anything other than a straight man and then they'll be the bigots for opressing you lol.

[–]mrchoco4 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

so he should come out as a gay/tranny man and he will be protected

[–]LonelyHermit 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Seriously press sexual harassment charges. Lawyer up dude.

[–]Prey_eyes 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

First. yes, you can.

Second, understand that is ALL this foid has in the world is the power to spread her legs and be fucked. That is the ONLY thing she can fall back on and pretend that she is "special." The problem is that we are surrounded by these fucking idiotic fucking morons and they outnumber us 10:1.

Just do like I do, dont look at anyone dont say a fucking word to anyone. Find a job that lets you wear earphones and grind out the day and go home.

The only cope in this world is nature. Nature is unwavering, unforgiving, and without sentiment or judgement. Go camping, go hiking, sailing, enjoy the planet because that is the only thing truly amazing and special about this world. Anything humans touch is corrupted and diseased. Humans are the worst creatures on this planet by a factor of 10 million.

This world is shit, the people in it are shit, any sort of effort made by you to be part of that or change it will blow back in your face and punish you.

[–]Administrative_worth 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

Serious answer. Ex law-cel here. Complain to your bosses. This bitch is a cunt. SHe wants to feel superior to others. Complain. But make demands. Demand she is put on some serious penalty, final warning etc, or possibly fired. SHe it is serious workplace harassment, and that she was trying to humiliate you. She had no right to ask that question.

Then your workplace has to respond. Here's the best thing. If they don't respond appropriately. They are now complicit in her behaviour. You can now get a major payout by taking them to a workplace tribunal. Just keep everything you can in writing. Maybe even have your phone on record first, go in and ask the girl why she asked if you were a virgin the other day. She answers anything other than "I didn't" you've got the proof.

Workplace laws exist for a reason. They're literally the shield incels have against abuse. Sadly no one gives lower value men any respect. They're seen as targets to bully. And they hate it when you wave up workplace laws at them calling out their shitty behaviour. In their world, if you'd just conform, (To being a little beta cuck, which is what they think you should be) lowest of the low in the pecking order, none of this would happen. You being low value and expecting fair treatment goes gaainst their social code.

But workplace law says otherwise. So gather your proof. Create a chain by complaining and not backing down in your demands. Your bosses will likely try and make you compromise. You're a a low value male, of course they will, try and push you around to get their best outcome. Don't let them. You're in the right. Lay it down. You've been humiliated and bullied in the workplace. If you have the proof, make copies and send them one. And demand she's fired, or suspended. If they don't do it, and make you feel safe at work, go after them and get a major payout. Best part, they can't even fire you afterwards. They have to keep you on, and you can come back in with a shit eating grin everyday knowing they have a lawsuit from you against them

[–]mrchoco4 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

what if he comes out as gay/transgender would he have a better chance?

[–]Administrative_worth 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Nah. Better to just state facts upfront. I'm a regular dude who has been bullied regarding my personal life, and humiliated in the workplace.

if you said you were a tranny, they'd likely just think you were overreacting as their track record indicates

[–]mrchoco4 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

ok but what if he claimed he was gay and felt that she assumed his sexual orientation?

(come on though it would be fucking hilarious if he came into work with a dress with a lawyer though)

[–]Administrative_worth 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

He could do a cringey meme, or he could play serious and possibly get a serious payout. WHy go cirngey and just be a joke they laugh at when you move on, vs be the guy they hate cause he got like a 90k payout because the workplace propagated bullying culture.

i'd laugh way harder knowing I fucking took their money

[–]mrchoco4 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

ok but why not come out as gay (no dress required)

[–]fuccs 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (6 children)

Just rape her and whisper in her ear that you are no longer a virgin

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

This is against TOS please don't advocate for rape

[–]fuccs 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

But it was a joke

[–][deleted] 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

Doesn't matter.

[–]fuccs 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Ok im sorry I will never make the joke again

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Thanks man.

[–]basedaf1 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

why does everyone want to play games with the rules these days? In braincel days we would've never stood for this as a group. We're lucky the admins give so many chances here

[–]basedandblackpilled 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Get that dumb bitch fired bro. Don't let this shit slide.

[–]letsgobish29 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

just lol if you don't have your fake cover story pre-prepared. i got asked when i was about 20 and i answered no i lost it at 16. but the fact that i got asked shows how over it was for me.

[–]Moses_Sithole 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Same. I lie and say I lost it at 14. They always believe.

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

you can report her to HR but nothing will most likely happen honestly, it's just better to be prepared for the next time just act calm and say why is that your buisness? she'll probably quiet down, just grow an outer shield become lower inhibition through practice.

[–]mrchoco4 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

if he comes out as gay/trans it might work lol

[–]Honk 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Foids are fucking sick in the head. Mentally ill is an understatement. The shit they come out with is sad but whats also sad is you are so high inhib you should have told her to fuck off the ugly whore.

[–]99_1_Rule 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This is the type of shit that would legit make me faint under the fucking stress.

I wouldn't be able to stand up if someone did some shit like this to me.

I would get into a cold sweat, then I would just pass the fuck out.

[–]braincel1031 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

asked me if I was a virgin.

The ideal response in this instance would be "I dunno are you a dumb bitch?" or some variation on that

" She clasps her hands to her mouth and starts holding back tears of laughter. I just sort of stood there awkwardly and shuffled my feet. After a minute of her gasping for breath, she turns to me and says, “Just making sure.”

This would have been a good time to fearmaxx like Joe Pesci in Goodfellas. In this instance you should have asked "Is something funny?" to which she will likely respond "no" after which you keep asking why she's laughing if nothing is funny to the point that it makes her extremely uncomfortable.

[–]mrchoco4 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

no just report her to h.r and claim to be gay or even better come to work the next day in a dress with a lawyer and say it was transphobic gotta lean into the crazy in clownworld!

[–]Chad_the_Larp 0 insightful - 1 fun0 insightful - 0 fun1 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

You should have said yeah baby want some fuck, and blow her a kiss.

[–]mrchoco4 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

uh no you'd get carried out by a swat team lol