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[–]hybristophilia 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Man, l want to tell you not to do it. I'm over a decade older than you. I may sound bitter, but if you want love you need a pet. A dog can genuinely love you. My family owned a few, this is pure love, pure friendship.

A woman cannot love a man, like a man does a woman. It may be possible if you are 6'4, chad, or a criminal. Otherwise they see men as ATMs.

[–]mrchoco4 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

amen legit get a dog

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Dogs: Man's best friend. Women's best bull.

[–]Administrative_worth 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Don't bro.

Only when you hit that rock bottom ,can you choose, to rope, ldar, or rise.

You have to view it under the sphere, at age 21 almost none of your life is your fault. It is parental conditioning and genetics. I grew up with abusive parents, I know this well. Now though you can rise.

The world's fucked. hard work, as much as it can do you good, pales in comparison to looks. Looks lead to prospering. It leads to more friends which equals more social support and positive feedback, which leads to a happier individual, which leads to higher serotonin and dopamine levels, which lead to better sleep and cognition.

You have to remove yourself from that shitty cycle, that has looks ranking individuals. You have to honk pill. Don't jester for others. But honk for yourself. all out bullshit where you see it. If a chad tries to aggressively impose on you, call it out. "Are you trying to use violence to push me around?"

Force the unspoken conversation out. WE live in a bullying hierarchal culture. As much as there are anti bullying campaigns, they don't mean anything. They're a cultural lie. No one gets "successful" without bullying. Call it out. Don't become the bully, because oyu just rejoin the game.

If a woman makes that disgusted scowl face at me, or a female coworker ignores me when I say a friendly collegiate hello, I laugh as I walk past them. Loudly. It's rude disgusting behaviour, displaying contempt. Contempt for what? A polite greeting? It's them saying you're beneath my time, and acknowledgment.

Laugh and honk bro. Unless you have some fairly serious mental issues that need seeing to and fixing, then you're likely one of the forgotten, invisible men. There's a lot of them. My suburb has a local park where they congregate everyday after work in spring and summer. They sit around on their phones, alone, smoking etc. Most of them are average or below men. No chads or anything. Just low value men.

they're never going to rise up the corporate ladder. They're never going to get rich and have the beautiful house. They're never going to be given hedonistic chad level sex. That level of intimacy paired with hedonism. No they're unwanted. Leftovers. Cogs in the machine. They get up. WOrk, ldar or sit in the park etc. Maybe gym-cel. Eat some food, Netflix etc, bed.

DOn't conform and be them.

I had a spinal injury at age 21. Literally best thing that ever happened to me. Forced my body to wake up. It was a few hard years of recovery, but I am happier, healthier than I have ever been.

DOn't just accept their bullshit, rise up and startliving for you. Women only judge you based on your looks. Biggest factor determining their disposition towards you in any social setting. They make no value judgment on you, so don't let them determine your value. Most other men, especially normies, are just trying to get pussy, and will throw you udner the bus at any opportunity to get it. Don't worry about them. SOme chads can be friendly, and often laugh at how women just flock to them over looks and think most women are hoes, and some chads are bullies and revel in it, and think of non chads as lesser people.

Distance yourself from the shitty game. Go to yoga. Gym-maxx for yourself. Career maxx so you can afford hwat you would like to. Learn to cook healthy foods for you.

I have a strong group of buds at the gym who live like this. Live simply. down to earth. And are all about positivity, and despise the whole hierarchy.

Women love hierarchy btw. It gets them wet. Seeing someone mog someone else. The idea of being rich and getting fucked by chad in a penthouse with champagne bottles on ice etc. Private jets. it's why they watch the kardashians and all that shit, to fantasise about living that beautiful high status life.

They love violence, at least a certain kind. Where a chad comes in and beats up a "toxic incel" gets them wet.

it's why dark triad types get more sex. I've ascended. AS I said at the start, I was abused as a kid. I actually ogt more sex before being happy, than after. Cause I was an emotional wreck who understood hierarchy so well. I was also decent looking pre spinal injury.

Walk away from their bullshit. They only respect you if you're one of them.