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Do you derive any enjoyment from being alone, or have you come to dread it?

submitted by No1stupid from self.Incels

I’m sure many of us are aware that being with people is not always pleasant. Other people often have their own needs and wants that they would like to exact upon you, and there are billions of people who I would never want to hangout with for those reasons.

Do you find any solace in the fact that you don’t have to deal with the energy vampires of the world? The people who would take advantage, and disrespect you?

I have personal experience with being the jester of my friend group in high school, and my role often devolved into “make us laugh or GTFO”, which I obliged in order to fit in, but deeply regretted later on since I gave up so much of my dignity and self-esteem to please them. It even infects my interactions today when I can’t get people to like me. I will start being goofy to please them since being a jester has been my only successful method of getting close to people.

Is it liberating to be free of those expectations when you are by yourself? You don’t have to be someone’s pet monkey and keep them entertained. You can act however you like, and frown as much as you want without being told you look like a serial killer.

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[–]hybristophilia 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

It depends. Being alone all the time really isn't something l can enjoy. I feel very lonely at times, when l come back home. I used to live with my parents but they were unbearable.

Coming back to an empty flat is suicide fuel. I did some homestays, like living with elderly whose kids already left. It was cool. The rent was ok, l had 2 meals a day. We talked during dinner. It's something l would recommend.

I was still by myself in the room, which gave me freedom. You know to study, be alone, etc. I also loved with roommates. But guy would bring back his gf and she was moaning so loud you could hear her, fuck this!!

Better share a flat with some true cels, you can get along while having enough personal space. If your schedule permits it, a cat/dog/hamster would be cool.

[–]curryvirgin 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

catmaxxing is pretty good

[–]PURE_ARYAN_GENETICS 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I just want to play videogames with a pure loli. I abhor any other type of social interaction