army has high divorce rate, iirc. They even give benefits to soldiers who marry to hook them up with child support and debt when there's a divorce. If there's a divorce the free provided army lawyer goes to the wife, the man has to hire his own private lawyer.

Look, perhaps you should start at mgtow, before you investigate the blackpill. Many mgtows are average or above average looking and they've seen relation after relation fail. The marriage laws are quite toxic in many places, and getting worse even in places where they are not that bad.

They've changed it to were cohabiting for a period of time automatically marries you, and I've heard there is talk of making it so if you have an intimate relation with a woman for a sufficient time you'll be automatically married.

The family courts are kangaroo courts, and false accusations can land a man in jail even if the woman confesses she lied. In some countries being proven innocent is not enough as there is no double jeopardy and you can be tried time and time again until found guilty.

Look its true some average looking guys lack confidence and think themselves below average. Yet even if they had confidence, the laws stand in their way, and given female nature the laws are bound to bite.

There are gymcels and armycels, and also army mgtows.

Also a blackpill I've not confirmed is that later in life women's libido plummets through the floor, so many marriages become sex less and often loveless too. And although around 50% of marriages end in divorce, many who remained married remain in loveless sexless abusive marriages.