I agree that resentment is not the answer. And that incels who feel hatred upon learning of female nature should abandon that hate.

But the graphs show men rate women looks accurately, while women rate 80% of men as below average. And most men would be happy to go with an average or slightly below average woman. Even in extremely below average there are still many men who would want a relation. Put a deformed girl profile online, and she gets tons of approaches, put a deformed man online and no matter how many he contacts he'll simply be rejected. And while a chad profile gets hundreds or thousands of approaches, a deformed man gets none.

While chad can say anything offensive insulting etc and mostly get away wit hit, a deformed man can have the best conversational skills and will be rejected by practically all women he approaches.

Look, we've all read and seen in media depictions of the guy with a life long crush for someone, that sees a girl as different from all others and unique and irreplaceable, that approaches the girl only to be rejected. Perhaps ending in the friendzone, where the girl tells him how much she shares in common with him, how much she likes his personality and other traits, etc. In some cases you hear how she just went after an abusive bad boy, and how she complains about the constant abuses but can't leave him for reasons she doesn't understand.The cherry on top is when she tells the friendzone guy that she wishes her boyfriend was just like him in personality and behavior.

If we left it up to mainstream media, such cases would be a mystery indeed. Even in the red pill some say you just have to be more abusive and less caring, as if that was the reason for chad's success. Chad succeeds in spite of the abuse not because of it.

They implicitly tell you the truth, by making the friends most often below average, while the bad boy is an attractive chad. But due to political correctness they don't outright tell you why that happened. Why one guy got rejected by the girl of his dreams while an asshole got to be with her intimately despite abysmal personality and abusiveness.

But the answer is simple, it was just looks. Good genetics. Females are the guardians of the species, they must ensure genetic quality is maintained in the population. If this wasn't the case and they started to go for guys with extremely long noses, or very short or excessively tall(8+ft), or bad genes, these would propagate and the species would change over time for the worse.

The variation in height has to be kept within certain ranges, the sizes of noses, mouths, etc. Their variation has to be kept in check. There are species that have lasted for tens of millions of years without change. It is said that humans potentially are basically the same from tens of thousands of years ago. In order to keep such stability, genetic quality has to propagate more favorably and be maintained.

Each generation hundreds of new mutations are introduced into each and every baby. Evolution works by weeding out the bad with less reproduction or no reproduction, while at the same time allowing for reproductive success of those who're fitter. It just so happens that the vast majority of mutations are bad, and the best genetics are found in a small fraction of the population.