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[–]Melodic_Programmer 3 insightful - 4 fun3 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 4 fun -  (3 children)

Lol, what BS. It'll stop hurting eventually.

[–]HongKongPhooey[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Lol, what BS. It'll stop hurting eventually.

It sounds to me like her religious upbringing left her with such a fear of her own body and sexuality that it developed into a psychosomatic disorder that is significantly impacting the quality of her life (psychological fear causing the involuntary contraction of muscles). I would have expected more sympathy. This is psychological abuse at the hands of an oppressive patriarchal system

[–]Melodic_Programmer 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

It took quite some for sex to not hurt for me and I don't think it was psychosomatic. But yeah, you're probably right about her being afraid of her own body. It's too bad she can't work it out with a guy instead of medical professionals.

[–]yabut 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Yo sweet thang, you just need a smaller fiddle in that bajanja so it doesn't hurt. Hmu