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[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Generally when people go through a break up, they put in maximum effort for self development and become better drastically. If they had put in that effort and dedication to preserving their relationship, they wouldn't have broken up in the first place.

[–]SecretlyHistoric[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

People leave each other for a variety of reasons. If the article had a quote from the wife saying that she left him because he had become overweight and lazy, that would be one thing. Her leaving might have been for a completely different reason. We don't know.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yes, you are right. That is why I said "generally" instead of pointing to the article in post.