Can't say I've had a lesbian in my bed to my knowledge but I have had to teach a few females "what to do" as no man had ever taught them. Not that hard no pun intended. My own daughter asking me about her age ten or so same questions as her psychotic religious mother sure would not discuss. I recall a few favored phrases = (1) the human sex organ M or F starts on top of head and goes down to soles of your feet. (2) Pleasure MOST OF THE TIME is the deal not pain. If one partner wants pain then that is most likely going to be a severe problem. (3) for the male then work him up from head to toes and BE NICE. Be a total slut if you want as many men like that and work his dick like a females' play toy and guaranteed he will squirt the sperm just fine. Unsure why any "lesbian" would need any special instructions of this.