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[–]3MistersAndAMissy 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

I disagree with the idea that you can change sex. I consider a transexual to be a person who is biologically one sex but lives as the other.

Is that what you are asking?

You look amazing btw. I mean this respectfully as a middle aged straight lady

[–]Kai_Decadence[S] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I consider a transexual to be a person who is biologically one sex but lives as the other. Is that what you are asking?

No not really. What I was getting at is that I honestly believe that "Transsexual" is not a real thing. It's a made up concept that became a thing because society (men) has a history of a problem with feminine nonconforming men and tried to find a way to imply that effeminate men are not "real" men and that there has to be something wrong with us for not conforming to masculinity because they couldn't fathom why a man could be comfortable not being masculine.

And thank you lol.

[–]MezozoicGay 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I would not say it is always the case, however I know real example of such with my ex-boyfriend, when he went to Russia (much more homophobic country than our with homophobic laws), and seems that hate broke him, so he became transwoman, and most classic TiM you can see, with "I am better woman that woman, I do not have any minuses of woman but all pluses, all men should love me now". It is both sad and disgusting.

[–]Kai_Decadence[S] 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

YEP. This is especially true for homophobic countries like Russia, some places in South America, and the Middle East. Hate is what breaks and brainwashes feminine men or even gay men to think they need to be trans to be acceptable and I agree, it's both sad and disgusting.