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[–]Edvin 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I think we are seeing progress, at least in North American culture because I can't speak to global culture, with men being able to break out of their typical gender rolls. More men are cooking, and being able to express their feelings instead of being cold and expressionless. I also believe women breaking into more male dominated professions helps too.

[–]Girlwiththeraventat 10 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

I think some of these men/boys dont feel like they have a place in todays society. Maybe they grew up in a traditional household and wanted that for themselves. They see feminists as ruining their chances of having that.

I agree with your point about gender roles. I think men and women would be happier without set gender roles. Everyone gets to be themselves. But now we have TRAs backsliding the gender roles. So once again you can only like "girly" things if you are female and "boy" things if you are male.

[–]Edvin 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Do you think the shift in economy plays a roll as well. Lots of these young men have grandparents that grew up working hard labour jobs in steel mills and other factories. Then there were world wars that their grandparents fought in that shaped the world they are in today. However there is a steady decline in this sort of honest days work in search of cheaper labour over seas as well as wars that we no longer attribute as good vs evil such as World War ii.

[–]Girlwiththeraventat 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

You've made a good point about the economy. There are definitely less "manly" high paying jobs available now. Back then you didnt need an expensive education to make a good living. Society now says having a manual labor job is lowly. Society told men for generations that their worth was in being a protector and provider then took that away.