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It's meant to be incoherent. It functions as a way of gaining power over others. If you play their game you constantly have to walk on eggshells, something familiar with anyone who has dealt with abusers.

Authentic people do not concern themselves all that much about how other people see them. NPD and BPD people are obsessed about it, and that is the reason they are so dangerous.