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[–]TheOnyxGoddess 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Beause we don't want to provide validation and make ourselves more vulnerable to assault, the issue is not just fulfilling autogynephile fantasies, it's also being made more vulnerable to something that is more able to overpower a female and assault her. Organisations are too cheap (or can't afford) to create separate stalls where a person can go into the same stall to shower and get dressed, so we're all being forced to share a public space to shower and to get dressed in the same space. I don't like sharing space with anyone, but the compromise I make with society is that if I have to share space with anyone, it would be with someone with the same sex as me and I hope they don't perve on me and is someone I can take down if they try to attack me. When I was a kid I had a female classmate watch me get dressed before, I did not like that even though we're both females and she kept on staring even though I told her not to (looking back, we were kids and it's not like every kid understands that doing this is intrinsically harmful like bullying, so I wonder if I was a bit harsh on her), now imagine if that was a full grown male.