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[–]NeedMoreCoffee 16 insightful - 3 fun16 insightful - 2 fun17 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

Poor women, this must have sucked to try and relax in a womans spa and suddenly have a naked man strutting around.

And then you have some dingdong telling you why you should not be upset...

Edit: just saw someone mention that spa has a co-ed section which made it all that much worse.

[–]slushpilot 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Well to be fair, if there is a fully nude common space and it's understood that everyone will be naked there, then fine. It's not everyone's cup of tea, and different cultures have their own views on common nudity.

But "women's" means just that: reserved for women only.

[–]NeedMoreCoffee 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I just don't get, if you are trans, why not go the mixed sex section. Trying to insert your dick in a women's only section is just asking for trouble and incredibly entitled.

This is how people get hurt.

[–]kwallio 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The boundary violation is the point. I got into an argument on reddit with some guy who was like "She didn't go to the spa to wave her dick around, she just wanted to relax!". Like, dude, you have no idea why the transwoman is there. Shut up.