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[–]supersmokio6420 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Her love for me is conditional. Why in the hell am I staying with her if her love is conditional. Is this normal? I grew up in a love is conditional house and church. I’m sick of it and want the conditional love to end.

Leave her then! Sounds like it would be doing you both a favour.

[–]lefterfield 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

For sure. And the only truly unconditional love is the kind you get from a dog. Any human person has a finite amount of shit they're willing to tolerate. Abuse victims may tolerate abuse, but I wouldn't say they do so out of "love."