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[–]oofreesouloo 15 insightful - 11 fun15 insightful - 10 fun16 insightful - 11 fun -  (0 children)

BUT neovaginas are exactly the same as vaginas wtf shut up you TERF scum /s

[–]absoluteblasphemy 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (10 children)

I’m not religious but reading this story the word “demonic” springs to mind. What breaks my heart and riles me is that this isn’t even an uncommon story for the women who are dating these trans identified men. Drug use in the community is shocking. Obviously it’s a very painful place to be in this level of denial, I wish I knew how to better reach people that you know... they don’t have to contort their own realities to please frankly, delusional, people.

Source? I used to date two “trans women” one was post op and I never touched that thing. It was nothing remotely resembling any human genitalia, it freaked me out and I’m bisexual LOL. The class most likely to date a trans. Guess I’m only into healthy human genitalia and not post surgical penises that somewhat resemble a vulva in nothing but appearance.

Both of these people are still engaged in heavy drug use, as I was too at the time, several years ago now.

[–]linda_senora 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (9 children)

It is wonderful that you managed to extricate yourself from those relationships.

If I may, when did you realize you were being used? What made you decide to up and leave?

[–]absoluteblasphemy 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (8 children)

Thank you, honestly I just got lucky. I was deep in the trans stuff, even wondered if I should transition myself, played around with a male role because uhhh all the men around me thought they were women and I was on a considerable amount of drugs... It was basically like living in upside down world, and it was completely horrific.

People say the trans stuff is like a cult but I’m tempted to say that it’s worse than we even know with the way these people use sex and drugs and even occult magic. It’s as insane as it sounds, I knew people that wanted to summon demons, people that did blood letting rituals. Like what the hell.

No idea how I got out, even in all the chaos my mind had this penny drop moment that these people I was around, that claimed to be women, weren’t really acting like women, but they sure as hell were treating me like one. And a one they thought extremely little of, at that. I had an experience once of just being so strung out and dissociated I felt as though I was forced back into my body, forced to see the reality.

And I saw that in my effort to have a super cute queer uwu inclusive sparkle gender relationship I had fallen into the oldest trap a girl can and allowed cruel addicted men to warp my reality and abuse me physically and sexually.

It was very destructive, very painful, but it was an internal revelation. I wish I could speak to these women and reach them, but we are on different sides of the looking glass.

[–]linda_senora 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I am speechless.

Getting out of that situation was the best thing you could have done for yourself. Another question, though...why whould anybody care about being in a queer inclusive relationship?

I don't see the point.

And once again, you are very lucky you escaped.

[–]lefterfield 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

My guess as not-the-op would be that it's both seen as the trendy thing to do, and the thing that "good people" want to be part of. It seems like women are more sensitive to social pressure than men, especially on wanting to be a good person.

[–]absoluteblasphemy 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You hit the nail on the head. They brainwashed with me “how to be a good ally” and just unequivocally accept trans people.

I’m a bisexual female who dated primarily women, so I’ve always been in the LGB alphabet community. Right now there’s a lot of pressure on women to accept this gender ideology and take the trans girl dick.

[–]our_team_is_winning 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I knew people that wanted to summon demons, people that did blood letting rituals. Like what the hell.

You know, I saw the post about the app that "monitors" posts that offend TRA and they're calling it "Shinigami eyes" -- that's a Japanese death demon, literally that's what "shi" (death) and "kami" (god) together mean. I don't expect these anime-obsessed TRA to know anything about the history of Shinto outside of how it's used in anime, but there's that strange connection between TRA and demons again.

I wonder how widespread the connection is, or if it's no more common among TRA than it is among confused youth in general?

[–]BiologyIsReal 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

"Shinigami eyes" is a reference to the manga and anime Death Note, which is not related with trans issues at all. In the anime, the main character uses a shinigami's death note to kill criminals by writing down their actual names into it (a pseudonym won't do it). Certain characters gain shinigami's eyes because these eyes allow them to see people's actual names.

[–]absoluteblasphemy 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

They really called it that, of course they did. Now I’m not suggesting that all trans identified people are as bad as the particular crowd I fell into but there does seem to be running occult themes.

Like if I had a penny for every satanist trans catgirl I’ve seen on Reddit, I’d have a whole lot of pennies. I don’t know if people understand that we’re tapping into something very primal when we use occult symbolism and ritual like this. We’re not living in times where we understand it well.

And when I’m thinking about it how far away is SRS and the mythology surrounding the idea you can change sex from other ritual practices we’ve seen in humanity? Castration comes to mind.

I don’t have any good answers but I think the religiosity of the trans movement is something that is very clear even without stories like mine.

[–]MarkTwainiac 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

So glad you got out. I hope you share more about your experiences in/with the trans cultists. The world needs to know.

[–]usehername 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

It hurt me to hurt her, because she couldn't dilate by herself due to the pain and I felt like a rapist. At one point I broke down crying and told her I can't handle seeing her cry and scream and she had a breakdown, and sort of "hit" me in the face with her bloody dilator.

This is extremely fucked.

The entire account is shocking. How the fuck is this surgery legal?

[–]emptiedriver 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

and sort of "hit" me in the face with her bloody dilator.

And incredibly she is the one who feels guilty about it, for saying anything in response...

[–]Greykittymomma 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Good lord I am actually angry at this stupid woman. How. Fucking. Delusional.

Anything for a man to get off though, amiright?

[–]linda_senora 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Thank you for posting this, it made my day.

That TIM deserves everything that is happening to him. I don't know what to say about the OP. At some point she has to realize she has become a doormat.

[–]Finnegan7921 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

whole lotta gag reading that.

[–]jjdub7Gay Male Guest Commentator 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The next line better be "and my divorce papers have been filed"

[–]Finnegan7921 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

whole lotta gag reading that.

[–]WildApples 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

At one point I broke down crying and told her I can't handle seeing her cry and scream and she had a breakdown, and sort of "hit" me in the face with her bloody dilator. I'm not really taking that to heart, though I know the word "hit" sounds like physical abuse. It was not, it was just a plastic dilator and it didn't hurt, and I know she knew it wouldn't hurt. But at the time we were both so emotional I told her not to hit me and that hurt her deeply, because of course that sounds like I was implying she was physically abusing me. After that she stubbornly refused to let me help her dilate until the next incident, and I regret my breakdown to this day because that was really not about me. I hate myself for that every single day.

This is tragic. It can be hard enough extricating oneself from an abusive relationship even without the social baggage. I feel bad for the women like her who have internalized the idea that to be a good partner means completely negating themselves to avoid triggering someone else's dysphoria.

Really, with the obsession with avoiding any pain to trans people, modern culture is teaching the very unhealthy and unrealistic message that individuals are responsible for and capable of fixing other people's psychological problems.

[–]GConly 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

Jesus h Christ.

That poor woman.

And it's not a vagina, it won't smell like a vagina. It's got totally different bacteria in it, as opposed to an inverted penis.

There was a mild scare in the middle of her recovery where the stitches on her labia kind of "dissolved"

Might have been dehiscence, where the inflammation pops the stitches.

The whole thing made me feel ill. I even feel sorry for the TIM.

[–]our_team_is_winning 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

I even feel sorry for the TIM.

It takes me back to being a kid with a scab and it itched, but my mother would scold me "don't pick at it or it won't heal!" Boys certainly wind up with as many scabs as girls, probably more. Were they never told "don't pick at it or it won't heal?" How is that life lesson lost when they read (or in this case, she did the research for him!) that "a neovagina will try to close up, so you need to keep it from doing that" ?

I guess I just feel bad for the TIM that he broke with reality long ago and was thus vulnerable to the sales pitch that "we can make you a woman! Just hand over your insurance card!"

[–]GConly 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I feel sorry for the mentally ill man told having his genitals hacked off will make him..

A: a real woman

B: happy

I just can't believe the lack of gatekeeping now. They used to have to go through years of therapy before a shrink would sign off on this. For a good reason. One it's done it can't be undone.

Something tells me in a few years there will be a big business in penis transplants and repair surgery.

[–]our_team_is_winning 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

Something tells me in a few years there will be a big business in penis transplants and repair surgery

Like the tattoo removal business? Dr. Tattoff will become Dr. Penis-on?

[–]Osusanna 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Oh my god what if things progress (degrade?) to the point that trans identified men start donating their penises (penii??) to trans identified women? I wouldn’t be surprised if they’re already trying to make this happen. Ughhhhhhghjkffgg

[–]MarkTwainiac 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Nah, that won't happen. All the tissues from TIMs' penises and scrotums are needed to make their fauxlvas and fauxginas. And the glans of their penises are what their "clits" are made of.

In fact, TIMs often do not have enough genital tissue for surgeries meant to mimic female genitals, so other tissue from different body parts - the colon, the back, the thighs, or the peritoneum - has to be used as well.

Plus, "donating" anything in order to be of help to others seems not to be in the wheelhouse of any of these male narcissists.

[–]spinningIntelligence 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I legit couldn't even read that all the way through. This is abuse, and whoever did the surgery should be in prison.

[–]GoValidateYourself 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Holy shit. Not even mentioning how abusive it is for the TiM partner to coerce the female partner into giving oral sex to "relieve dysphoria", and hitting her, that's just so fucking dangerous. She's going to get MRSA or E Coli and end up in the hospital if she keeps putting her mouth on that thing. That's so disgusting and dangerous. She could die! I hope she wakes up fast and gets the fuck out of that relationship.