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[–]our_team_is_winning 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (9 children)

Always love your posts, Kai!

I'm glad you live somewhere the gyms are open so you can work. So many places still shut down.

It pains me that your own brother would put random strangers on the internet ahead of you. I mean he's calling you abusive names on behalf of Blaire White, a guy on the internet? < then pretty much said that if I end up getting cancelled (I.e. lose my job), I have no one to blame but myself and that I will kinda deserve it> Nobody deserves to lose their job because they acknowledge reality! In fact, personal belief should be a right and not grounds to fire anyone. (Actions might be grounds, but ideas? That's twisted!)

The trans movement is threatened by gay people who are happy being themselves, be it butch, femme, whatever. Blaire White will never be a woman. He will always be a gay man who hated himself. It makes me sad. Lookism being what it is, so many (most?) people look in the mirror or at photos of themselves and think "I want a smaller nose, bigger eyes" etc. Everyone finds fault. How many surgeries has Blaire had now?

Most people can't afford all that surgery, or would be scared to go through so much, or couldn't get that much time off work. Blaire presents such a pornified version of a fake woman. I don't know why he couldn't be happy as a feminine gay man. Nothing wrong with that. I don't know his life story. Maybe in his youth he got called a lot of slurs and he thought trying to turn his "girly" behavior into being a walking Playboy Bunny cartoon would make it all better. He just seems like a self-loathing gay man to me, and an insult to women.

You would think that we've reached the point of gay acceptance and that self-loathing gay wouldn't be a thing -- and there would be help available for those men -- instead the whole trans thing is making huge leaps backward.

Sorry your brother has such an attitude. Why do you think he's so defensive of the whole trans agenda? Just an overal dismissal of women? But the whole Blaire thing is so anti-gay too.

Stay strong. You're in the right.

[–]Kai_Decadence[S] 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (8 children)

Exactly. And the thing was I was not even saying that Blaire white was even ugly or anything, I was just kinda laughing when my brother kept saying that Blaire "looks like an actual female" because he doesn't. My brother can't tell when a face is edited through a face app and that is more or less what I was trying to say. I was finally able to find the source video where those infamous leaks of Blaire's unedited face pictures came from and I mean, Look at this. Does he seriously look like he has the face of a female? And keep in mind, this was done in August of 2018, a year after he had his FFS which he had done in late December of 2016 to January of 2017 which was just a nose job and his hairline lowered And as far as what he's done since then, I think the only thing he's gotten done were Lip fillers and cheek filler, nothing outright long-lasting.

Most people can't afford all that surgery, or would be scared to go through so much, or couldn't get that much time off work. Blaire presents such a pornified version of a fake woman. I don't know why he couldn't be happy as a feminine gay man. Nothing wrong with that. I don't know his life story. Maybe in his youth he got called a lot of slurs and he thought trying to turn his "girly" behavior into being a walking Playboy Bunny cartoon would make it all better. He just seems like a self-loathing gay man to me, and an insult to women.

Well since you asked, you're not too far off about why Blaire has such low self esteem about himself.

  • He has said that when he was "living as a boy", his father never accepted him because he was a homosexual (he came out as a teenager) and though he didn't say this other part, I am MORE THAN sure it was also because of how he looked which was very effeminate. This is what Blaire looked like when he was in high school and because Blaire mentioned that his father was a tad conservative, I am more than sure he didn't approve of his soon looking this way. And this further extended to his grandfather as well who also didn't accept him. And even when Blaire was starting to transition, his father still didn't accept him till death did him part (he died in 2014, a year before Blsaire started using HRT but came out prior as "transgender" in early 2014).

  • In the dating world, Blaire expressed how difficult he was finding the gay dating scene to be trying to date as an effeminate gay man. Video here The only boyfriend he ever had before Joey was a closet-case bisexual man who literally made Blaire hide in his closet when his parents came to visit him at his dorm and the boyfriend never was open about his relationship with Blaire.

  • In 2015 in a livestream Blaire mentioned how he was not able to attend large family functions because his exterior family didn't want him there.A similar thing happened with an older uncle Blaire had who was also a Gay man and was also not welcome to come to family gatherings neither. This even continued after Blaire "transitioned", his grandmother didn't want him to come to the function for Xmas of 2016 which is why he stayed him and live-streamed that day (and got drunk and spilled out over why he was alone for the holidays). I'm not sure if things got better now but you gotta admit, having to go through that is not easy at all.

Unfortunately Blaire deleted his old livestreams where he talked about his family issues and that experience he had with his ex-boyfriend and no one has seemed to archive it but believe me, I saw these livestreams because that was back when I was a big fan of his and tried to never miss a livestream and putting two and two together, those experiences were all recipe for a disaster of self-loathing. He even admitted last year that he had a drinking problem and wanted to stop drinking.

Sorry your brother has such an attitude. Why do you think he's so defensive of the whole trans agenda? Just an overal dismissal of women? But the whole Blaire thing is so anti-gay too.

You're right and honestly when I think about my brother, I think he actually is bothered with the fact that I'm happy being myself aka looking super nonconforming. I remember one time he told me how our stepmother disapproves of me looking the way I do and from there, made me remember that she would ALWAYS criticize me whenever I dressed the way I wanted to. My Dad as well but he wasn't as vocal as my stepmom was. And then whenever I would be hanging out with my brother in public spaces, he'd do that thing where he'd pretend like he wasn't associated with me when like walking to stores (walk ahead of me and make sure he was like at least 3-5 feet away from me). And with how he tries to throw insults at me when I'm going on my explanation about why Transwomen aren't women just because they perform femininity, I just feel like deep down he's ashamed that he has a brother who "looks weird" .

[–]lefterfield 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I only knew some of that about Blaire White. That's incredibly fucking sad and explains a lot. This is perhaps the number one reason transgenderism is so dangerous - it becomes a way to self-medicate rather than seeking real help.

[–]Kai_Decadence[S] 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Agreed. And Blaire is such a good example of this and how it affects Gay Youth since he was experiencing this negativity when he was a teenager. I would love to use him as a speak-piece in my video but I simply can't because he deleted those old livestreams that I can't use as evidence to back my claims up so it would be hearsay on my part and I know that Blaire will just deny, deny, deny these claims like he usually tends to do.

[–]our_team_is_winning 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

I think he actually is bothered with the fact that I'm happy being myself aka looking super nonconforming

You're really a man to look up to. I hope your channel will reach as many young gay men as possible who are being bullied by the TRA. Be yourself and be happy. You're a role model. There are many types of men and you're one of them. Pity you couldn't have had a long talk with Blaire White before his soul was crushed by those who can't accept the wide variety of men.

[–]Kai_Decadence[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Thank you so much. I at least want to show to future young feminine gay men who are struggling navigating through life and having to deal with the growing pains GNC people have to go through but I just want to be there for them because it's something I wish I could've had when I was a teenager. When I was in my late teens, early 20s I used to look up to this one older feminine gay man who was in his mid 30s at the time but he eventually trooned out and is now all "I've always been a girl and I knew since I was 4 years old because I liked to play with my mom's makeup" and needless to say, I was mortified lol So I want to be an example of a GNC guy who does accept himself in the same way GNC Centric does for masculine women.

Pity you couldn't have had a long talk with Blaire White before his soul was crushed by those who can't accept the wide variety of men.

Same here. I think just talking things through and knowing you're not alone in your struggle can really go a long way.

[–]our_team_is_winning 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I watched your self intro video from 6 or 7 years ago tonight. I went to your channel to see if you had any GC videos up. You rock those goth bell bottoms by the way! I think you could see huge growth in subscribers if you add some videos on accepting yourself and not going trans. That breaks my heart that a man you admired fell into that trap. I just can't believe at this point the conversion therapy of the church has been replaced by the body mutilation activism of the Woke. You and GNC Centric should do a video together.

[–]Kai_Decadence[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Thank you haha. And I hope you're right. It's mostly just about putting myself out there and sharing advice, tips, and tricks to accepting yourself as a GNC person, more so GNC man since it's the only experience I can speak from so I'm pretty much wanting to be the opposite end of GNC Centric whereas while her target is mostly GNC women, mine will be men. And fun fact, I've actually talked to her before and we do plan on making a video together sometime in the future so we'll just have to wait things through till our schedules can match up haha.

[–]our_team_is_winning 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

we'll just have to wait things through till our schedules can match up

Make that a priority, clear your calendars! And promote the heck out of it when it happens.

[–]Kai_Decadence[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Will do :)