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[–]SharpTomorrow 23 insightful - 1 fun23 insightful - 0 fun24 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

"feminism" has become a weasel word. There is no feminism if men can be women and and womanhood is considered "a feeling". Feminism has been co-opted by people who have an agenda, feminists didn't push back, the movement is now rotten to the core. unfortunately feminists themselves are to blame, because they pushed intersectionality which is divisive by nature. As soon as you reason about "subcategories" of women, this is what happen, you are building a hierarchy in your own struggle. It was a terrible mistake, no matter how well intended intersectionality was.

So your friend has been misled as to what feminism is at first place.

Men are not women and feminism was never designed for transsexuals. Gender stereotypes need to be fought, not normalized and enforced through the idea of "gender".

[–]Radish 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Absolutely. I stopped calling myself a feminist because nobody has any idea what that means any more. I hear people who I otherwise highly respect saying things like "oppression of femme-identified people"

I don't believe feminists are to blame, though. I don't believe feminists are really behind a movement that disguises itself as progressive but is characterized by telling women to shut up and that the movement knows what women are like better than women do. That sounds like regressive malespeak to me.

[–]Finnegan7921 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Feminists bear some, but not all of the blame. It is the same for the LGB's who gladly let the T's in and tolerated the bullshit and the end result is what you see today. Both groups went all in on the intersectional hierarchy of victimhood where the more boxes you check, the higher up you are. Those who rise high inevitably shit on those below by claiming to be more oppressed which entitles them to a greater right to speak out(while those below need to just stfu b/c, you know, reasons, Karen ! Don't trigger me with your privileged microagressions !!!) and also to be gatekeepers. They decide who can speak out, what views will be tolerated and who gets cancelled for running afoul of the groupthink.

[–]windrunner 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You said it all!